You see, there's the problem. You don't have to be an asshole to be an Alpha. If you think you do or you are, you do not deserve any position of authority.
You can still be in charge and treat your peers and subordinates well. You can be a powerful, in charge person without being an asshole or bitch.
You can still be in charge and treat your peers and subordinates well. You can be a powerful, in charge person without being an asshole or bitch.