Yup. That's true for most of them sadly...
It saddens me to say it, but you might as well approach all of them like this and treat them with suspicion, even the ones that aren't.
I want to stomp my feet and shout "nuh-uhh," but I can't becasue theres truth in this. Pop culture expectations have poisoned even my mind to believe that this is nearly 100% true, even though logic tells me that it probably isn't.
We are all that guy. Always have been and always will be.
Even the truly genuine, friendly, sweet and nice guys that DO think the girl is pretty and DOESN'T actually want to get in her pants is STILL that guy.
(Am I talking about me? No. I don't act on it, I never persue it, but I'm still a creepy fucker even though that's not what I'm looking for.)
In my experience, if you have sex before a meaningful relationship is established, then it becomes more of a lust relationship instead of love..obviously there are exceptions..
I dunno. I find that guys who are just trying to bang one out, arent ready to commit
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· 7 years ago
Why put one before the other? P.s. I'm just playing devil's advocate
The truth? There is no "right" blanket answer. Everyone is different and different with everyone else. It works both ways on both sides of the question.
Person "A" putting sex first, even "early" with person "B" could very well be a horrible, catastrophic idea. However, for person "A" to do that with person "C" could turn out perfectly fine.
It's true.
Yup. That's true for most of them sadly...
It saddens me to say it, but you might as well approach all of them like this and treat them with suspicion, even the ones that aren't.
I want to stomp my feet and shout "nuh-uhh," but I can't becasue theres truth in this. Pop culture expectations have poisoned even my mind to believe that this is nearly 100% true, even though logic tells me that it probably isn't.
What am I saying? Trust no one.
Even the truly genuine, friendly, sweet and nice guys that DO think the girl is pretty and DOESN'T actually want to get in her pants is STILL that guy.
(Am I talking about me? No. I don't act on it, I never persue it, but I'm still a creepy fucker even though that's not what I'm looking for.)
I dunno. I find that guys who are just trying to bang one out, arent ready to commit
Person "A" putting sex first, even "early" with person "B" could very well be a horrible, catastrophic idea. However, for person "A" to do that with person "C" could turn out perfectly fine.