Do the right thing. A split second before it hits you, push her against the wall and shield her the best you can.
Misogynist and sexist? Probably but I don't care, not about this new social landscape. My thought processes are antiquated, I'll admit it.
She might be pissed becasue "she don't need no man, ect.," but she'll be dry and be easier to take serious while she vents her anger. Not looking like a drowned rat and going squish when she moves and walks.
@flyingoctopus WHY did you @ me here???? WHYYYYY???
@zarbibarbie Is it that obvious? I'm gonna tone it down, I promise. But... I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds that his comments are..... endearing?? That's the only word I can think of without being too obvious. Oh and Hiii!! *wave*
@smitty Was going to comment here, no...no... not replying to your comment, but would probably be the first to comment on this post, IF I had the guts. Had the words typed and then I thought someone would find it offensive, misogynist and sexist. So I didn't post it. And no, I don't think is misogynist or sexist. When the fuck did making a sandwich or shielding someone because you care about them, deems sexist?? I mean... the little things that people finds offensive today, no wonder everybody's afraid to be nice. I'm rambling. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, thank you for voicing my thoughts...... you go dude *thumbs up*
@smitty@blushing_lurker I have a bad habit of not commenting for years but I'm always scrolling around. I saw this ship and I had to get on board. Smitty is an endearing gentleman and blushy is endearingly adorable and sweet. Can't help it, I'm afraid. Full steam ahead to Shipland! Don't be embarrassed, Blushy!
@flyingoctopus I'm with you! Hahaha
@blushing_lurker
It's the new social landscape.
I've always been standoffish to the point of seeming aloof, loath to "make the first move" and hitting on someone just seemed... wrong. Any relationship I've found myself in has been the result of there having seen or felt a hint of reciprocated interest.
A few years ago when I found myself... single again, I first needed time to heal. Not sure if I ever will to be honest. Now that time has passed I have seen that the social landscape has changed to such a degree that I find it effing terrifying.
#stoodup, #wastehistime and catfishing aside, things are different now and it feels as though certain modes of thought that were socially "normal" and "accepted" years ago really aren't anymore.
@smitty And it's not gonna slow down any time sooner, is it? The change. But I'm glad that you didn't conform to what is now deem "normal". A lot of people would just... go with the flow. And since there are many future men here, hopefully, from seeing your comments, they know that there are other options on how to act like a man. I have a feeling (assume), that that's one of the reason you stay here, to set an example. Although a little less bitchy would be nice. Cause sometimes when you walk down on memory lane, you sound bitchy, not bitter. It doesn't suit you :) Don't be offended ok. I don't mean it to be offensive. Thank you for opening up a little bit about yourself to me. A little peak into the real smitty not the internet one.
And I'm sorry about those 2 up there. It's my fault. I give up on telling them to stop, especially the flying one.
@zarbibarbie Don't worry about it, it's all good. I pretty much knew what I/we were in for. :)
@blushing_lurker
"...that that's one of the reason you stay here, to set an example."
Nail right on the head. Boom.
And no, I'm not offended. I kinda need that pointed out to me from time to time.
Don't worry about "fault" in the matter either.
At this point, if this were an IRL meet up of some sort, I'd invite you for a cup of coffee so we could escape the attention and get a breath of fresh air. Also, dispite trying to be a "good/better person" whatever that ends up meaning, I'm not above messing with people a little bit either. ;)
'Talking' here feels awkward. That's why I always take too long to reply. I have to thread my word carefully, so I don't offend anyone. That's sounds nice, coffee, maybe one day. In the mean time, I hope you don't mind just talking here.
Well, that's my input for the year. I apologise for the added discomfort on my part. You two do your thing at your own rhythm. I'm crawling back into the funsubstance darkness now. I'll probably comment again in a few years.
Misogynist and sexist? Probably but I don't care, not about this new social landscape. My thought processes are antiquated, I'll admit it.
She might be pissed becasue "she don't need no man, ect.," but she'll be dry and be easier to take serious while she vents her anger. Not looking like a drowned rat and going squish when she moves and walks.
@flyingoctopus
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@zarbibarbie Is it that obvious? I'm gonna tone it down, I promise. But... I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds that his comments are..... endearing?? That's the only word I can think of without being too obvious. Oh and Hiii!! *wave*
@smitty Was going to comment here, no...no... not replying to your comment, but would probably be the first to comment on this post, IF I had the guts. Had the words typed and then I thought someone would find it offensive, misogynist and sexist. So I didn't post it. And no, I don't think is misogynist or sexist. When the fuck did making a sandwich or shielding someone because you care about them, deems sexist?? I mean... the little things that people finds offensive today, no wonder everybody's afraid to be nice. I'm rambling. Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, thank you for voicing my thoughts...... you go dude *thumbs up*
@flyingoctopus I'm with you! Hahaha
@blushing_lurker
It's the new social landscape.
I've always been standoffish to the point of seeming aloof, loath to "make the first move" and hitting on someone just seemed... wrong. Any relationship I've found myself in has been the result of there having seen or felt a hint of reciprocated interest.
A few years ago when I found myself... single again, I first needed time to heal. Not sure if I ever will to be honest. Now that time has passed I have seen that the social landscape has changed to such a degree that I find it effing terrifying.
#stoodup, #wastehistime and catfishing aside, things are different now and it feels as though certain modes of thought that were socially "normal" and "accepted" years ago really aren't anymore.
And I'm sorry about those 2 up there. It's my fault. I give up on telling them to stop, especially the flying one.
@blushing_lurker
"...that that's one of the reason you stay here, to set an example."
Nail right on the head. Boom.
And no, I'm not offended. I kinda need that pointed out to me from time to time.
Don't worry about "fault" in the matter either.
At this point, if this were an IRL meet up of some sort, I'd invite you for a cup of coffee so we could escape the attention and get a breath of fresh air. Also, dispite trying to be a "good/better person" whatever that ends up meaning, I'm not above messing with people a little bit either. ;)
Yup, next time.
Goodbye Mr. Anderson.