Sure, but soda containers aren't alive and also self-cleaning. That being said, I believe it's not only moral but also a nice thing to do to save yourself for your spouse.
My mother advised me not to "save myself" because it's important to know how good your partner is in bed. I guess the women in my family value sex highly compared to all y'all.
@diyrogue Let me see if I can find an appropriate metaphor... I think the experience of say Disney World, would be best if you and a friend experience it together for the first time and discover the things to do together. Rather than one of you being like, yeah I've seen that before.
Besides, if you've never had sex before, then the first sex you have is the best you've ever had, and that's a pretty nice thing if that best sex ever is with the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with.
Uhm my first sex wasn't the best ever ^^'
I mean the idea itself is quite romantic, but personally I believe it's good to make some experiences of sexual nature. If I didn't have any sexual experiences (be it good or bad ones) and neither did my boyfriend, I know our sex wouldn't be as amazing as it is.
And in addition, if I only ever had sex with one person my whole life, I couldn't fight the feeling of maybe missing out on something. Maybe there's so much more to sex, but I wouldn't have the chance to know
That's fine if you believe that sex is a purely physical transaction, but I think it's something deeper than that.
Besides, on a physical level, I believe that if you establish a properly communicative relationship with your partner, then it is possible to build a great sex life with that partner regardless of who they are. In other words, I don't believe there is such a thing as "sexual incompatibility" in the sense of partners not being able to make it work, or to make it great for that matter. Communication is key.
And thank you, @mialinay , for engaging in cordial discussion.
Don't get me wrong, I too think sex should be something deeper and more intimate than a physical transaction in a relationship. But it can be a simple physical form of fun and if both participants are okay with that, I think that's fine too. By now sex is something completely different for me, it's just as you stated, but I'm glad I got to experience it in a looser less intimate way as well.
Besides, if you've never had sex before, then the first sex you have is the best you've ever had, and that's a pretty nice thing if that best sex ever is with the person you intend to spend the rest of your life with.
I mean the idea itself is quite romantic, but personally I believe it's good to make some experiences of sexual nature. If I didn't have any sexual experiences (be it good or bad ones) and neither did my boyfriend, I know our sex wouldn't be as amazing as it is.
Besides, on a physical level, I believe that if you establish a properly communicative relationship with your partner, then it is possible to build a great sex life with that partner regardless of who they are. In other words, I don't believe there is such a thing as "sexual incompatibility" in the sense of partners not being able to make it work, or to make it great for that matter. Communication is key.
And thank you, @mialinay , for engaging in cordial discussion.