Some people aren't attractive to you because beauty is subjective no matter if you're talking about color, size, gender
That's fine
What's not fine is calling someone ugly because you personally don't consider them attractive
True. There are standards of beauty, but those tend to change. Not by a lot but it's still change. I'll have to agree with diyrogue. It's rude to call someone out on their level of attractiveness to you.
I'm just mirroring what Rogue said as they got here first. But what makes any one of us the arbitrator of beauty? No one will find everyone attractive, and why does it matter if they do? You're faced with a situation: everyone is both beautiful and ugly at once- so your choice is which you decide to focus on. If the negative and positive have equal truth, the truth you choose to speak says more about you than the person you are speaking to. I'm sorry the world has hurt you, but with time and work you can heal- if you want to.
I may have written poorly. It seems I failed to convey that was a rhetorical question as evidenced by your answer to a rhetorical question which references two theories in order to basically say the answer one was intended to infer fits there: "I decided I was the arbitrator of beauty." Thank you for clarifying though, if my writing leads others to mistake that as anything but rhetorical, and/or they fail to come to the intended and logical conclusion, your reply should clear that up, or this will. Apologies for being unclear.
I agree with this opinion, though not in the sense of looks. Looks are not what decide whether you are beautiful or not, beauty comes from your personality. If you are a terrible person but have an attractive exterior, bitch you ugly. But you could be the most deformed and disfigured human imaginable, if you are a good person you are beautiful. So yes, some people are ugly. But that isn't determined from looks
As much as I want to agree with this, I feel that personality is as much an individual taste as exterior beauty. The person you think has an ugly personality may be the nicest person in the world to other people.
Thats true, I guess what I should say is that everyone is ugly to someone else, there isn't anyone who is beautiful to everyone and there isn't anyone who is ugly to everyone, so dont let it get to your head if someone thinks you're beautiful
That's fine
What's not fine is calling someone ugly because you personally don't consider them attractive
Like other aspects of social identity, it's a social negotiation.