Okay here are my answers
1. Roller coasters, fuck those
2. For some reason I always have to ground myself because I don’t like being shocked
3. I don’t have one
4. I wish I applied to more colleges so I wouldn’t get stuck with one I don’t like
5. Heights
6. Maybe the fjords of Norway
7. Be loved, I don’t need lots of money to be happy
8. I remember Christmas was always magical for little me
9. I fell into a fountain when I was a kid
10. Maybe like movie and a dinner because it’s easy and I have something to talk about
11. I guess I could be better at talking to people, I’m fine with the way I look
12. My mom, she’s the most wonderful person who has taught me so much
13. Build legos maybe, I could if I wanted I guess
14. That I don’t ever do it hahahahaha, no probably just it being awkward
15. I would love to be a race car driver because I’m good at that but I don’t want it to be my job, maybe an engineer or scientist
16. Yes
Cont...
I don't think 1, 4, and 9 are good questions unless you already know each other fairly well. They all are basically asking what you regret about your life.
1. Tried, never again: intimate piercing
2. Quirky habits: I grab my boobs when I walk fast
3. Best friend: Both of them live in the Netherlands by now :'(
4. Thing I wish I could undo: One of my exes, who lied to me (he became homeless while we were together), stole money from not only me but also my mum, stole my 400€ bike and threatened to kill himself when I broke up with him
5. My biggest fear: not finding my purpose in life and ending up miserable with a shitty paid job I hate
6. place I wish I lived in: Australia, my love. A smaller town with a nice little house right next to a forest/nature, huge backyard *drools*
7. rather loved or lots of money: I dream a lot about being rich, but I know I could never go without people who love me, and they'll always be there for me even when I'm poor as fuck. They are priceless.
8. happiest memory from my childhood: honestly several, each family vacation we went on. Every new environment was full of adventures and small wonders, newborn ..
.. kittens, dead fish, frogs, fog, horses, everything made me awe
9. most embarrasing moment: having my period at school while wearing white pants. Also accidentally walking right into the stretched out broken leg of an elderly woman while at the doctor's, not because I didn't see her but because of my clumsiness. She cried. I still feel so bad.
10. My dream date: going to a climbing park or walking shelter dogs, or going to an adult evening at an indoor playground (yay bouncing castles!)
Also brunch.
11. change about personality/look: I'm fine with my looks, but I want more self discipline to get shit done and get somewhere with my life.
12. who influenced me most: my friends. They actually built my character. I wouldn't be so nice to people and I definitely wouldn't have the same sense of humour I do without them.
13. what I used to do as a child and wish I could still do: just randomly cuddle with my dad. Falling asleep in the car and having someone carry me out ...
... and tucking me into bed. Having the most vivid imagination. Not worrying about adult stuff. Coming home and being able to eat what my mom made right away.
14. the worst thing about dating: being so fucking nervous in the beginning. Also having to reject someone after the first few dates without being harsh because you noticed you really don't match.
15. the one career I'd love to enter: tattooing
16. am I close with my family: with my mom yes, with my brothers and my father not nearly as close as I wanted it to be :(
17. which movie influences me the most: I honestly don't know :D
18. the one place in the world where I feel safe: on my mom's couch
19. what I want to experience before I die: a trip around the world. But it has to be adventurous
20. my ultimate goal in life: to be happy and spread happiness. Earning enough money with a job I love to offer a worryfree life to me and my loved ones. Also to mostly be surrounded by people I love and who love me.
The answers there are so cute! Here are mine :
1. walk in the mountains while on my period
2. sitting in strange positions and cracking every bone I can in my body
3. that guy that I didn't really like at first but then turned out to be smart, interesting, funny, and nice but still not too indulgent (aka the type of person who pushes you forward), liked simple things like eating in the garden near the campus... and now lives in Canada.
4. Age 6, I hadn't seen my aunt's dog in 2 years and didn't remember her quite well. But she did. I'll always remember the look in her eyes when I confusedly stepped back as she tried to jump on me. That was the las time I saw her and it's the only thing I'd like to change in my life.
5. being tricked into thinking that people like me only to discover they were making fun of me all along. That, and the day my parents will die, which is inevitable and awfully scary.
6. home. That's stupid but [continued]
I don't need big places and over the top landscapes, just a little place that will be mine, with a roof, warmth and food, cats, and if possible not too far away from my parents & sis.
7. I'm already loved by some people I'm sure of and my cat, so... + money pays medical bills for loved ones and allows to make gifts to everyone.
8. my dad asking me if I wanted to go to the toy alley in the supermarket. That's not his style at all and I remember it with a mix of surprise and joy. / him again telling me he was going to keep the cat he found in the garden. I was 14 but it's the best memory of my life.
9. Saying "consipation" instead of "conspiration" during a big presentation. Not the biggest cos' I can't remember all the embarrassing crap I do, but the most recent one.
10. It would involve either water pistols or disguise & a theme (like "the 50's" or "pirates")
11. If my eyes could be the same size, that would be great. It's not obvious according to my family but it bothers me a lot. {c]
12. real persons I know : my best friend & my cat. Others I don't know : people from the internet who helped me change and become more confident. Fictional persons come from Zola's books, +Buffy and Sebastian Michaelis
13. I don't miss anything, I hated my childhood.
14. Wouldn't know.
15. Writing.
16. Depends. I would die for my parents, cats, 1 of my sis but my two others sisters I see once a year and that's ok. I haven't see my cousins/aunts/... in years but don't miss them.
17. ?
18. In books.
19. bungee jumping and trying the strongest spices. Also Parkour, and that's probably how I'll die.
20. To become as close as possible to what I consider a good person.
I want to see OP's reponses!
(There should be a dating app based on that questionary)
sry I talk too much!
Worst thing about dating? That no matter how much loyalty and trustworthiness you both exert into a relationship, there's still that nagging thought, that anomaly, that inevitable "thing", that something will go wrong. No relationship is perfect that's why both parties needs to contribute equally in the relationship and do the best they can to show how much they care and love the other person.
Worst thing about dating? That no matter how much loyalty and trustworthiness you both exert into a relationship, there's still that nagging thought, that anomaly, that inevitable "thing", that something will go wrong. No relationship is perfect that's why both parties needs to contribute equally in the relationship and do the best they can to show how much they care and love the other person.
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· 6 years ago
Nice, a comprehensive list to systematically check out weaknesses and vulnerabilities for a PUA to abuse and manipulate a date, including enough neutral and funny questions to come across as interested, compassionate and funny.
1. Roller coasters, fuck those
2. For some reason I always have to ground myself because I don’t like being shocked
3. I don’t have one
4. I wish I applied to more colleges so I wouldn’t get stuck with one I don’t like
5. Heights
6. Maybe the fjords of Norway
7. Be loved, I don’t need lots of money to be happy
8. I remember Christmas was always magical for little me
9. I fell into a fountain when I was a kid
10. Maybe like movie and a dinner because it’s easy and I have something to talk about
11. I guess I could be better at talking to people, I’m fine with the way I look
12. My mom, she’s the most wonderful person who has taught me so much
13. Build legos maybe, I could if I wanted I guess
14. That I don’t ever do it hahahahaha, no probably just it being awkward
15. I would love to be a race car driver because I’m good at that but I don’t want it to be my job, maybe an engineer or scientist
16. Yes
Cont...
18. Most places I guess, my bed???
19. Driving a car at 200mph
20. To be happy
2. Quirky habits: I grab my boobs when I walk fast
3. Best friend: Both of them live in the Netherlands by now :'(
4. Thing I wish I could undo: One of my exes, who lied to me (he became homeless while we were together), stole money from not only me but also my mum, stole my 400€ bike and threatened to kill himself when I broke up with him
5. My biggest fear: not finding my purpose in life and ending up miserable with a shitty paid job I hate
6. place I wish I lived in: Australia, my love. A smaller town with a nice little house right next to a forest/nature, huge backyard *drools*
7. rather loved or lots of money: I dream a lot about being rich, but I know I could never go without people who love me, and they'll always be there for me even when I'm poor as fuck. They are priceless.
8. happiest memory from my childhood: honestly several, each family vacation we went on. Every new environment was full of adventures and small wonders, newborn ..
9. most embarrasing moment: having my period at school while wearing white pants. Also accidentally walking right into the stretched out broken leg of an elderly woman while at the doctor's, not because I didn't see her but because of my clumsiness. She cried. I still feel so bad.
10. My dream date: going to a climbing park or walking shelter dogs, or going to an adult evening at an indoor playground (yay bouncing castles!)
Also brunch.
11. change about personality/look: I'm fine with my looks, but I want more self discipline to get shit done and get somewhere with my life.
12. who influenced me most: my friends. They actually built my character. I wouldn't be so nice to people and I definitely wouldn't have the same sense of humour I do without them.
13. what I used to do as a child and wish I could still do: just randomly cuddle with my dad. Falling asleep in the car and having someone carry me out ...
14. the worst thing about dating: being so fucking nervous in the beginning. Also having to reject someone after the first few dates without being harsh because you noticed you really don't match.
15. the one career I'd love to enter: tattooing
16. am I close with my family: with my mom yes, with my brothers and my father not nearly as close as I wanted it to be :(
17. which movie influences me the most: I honestly don't know :D
18. the one place in the world where I feel safe: on my mom's couch
19. what I want to experience before I die: a trip around the world. But it has to be adventurous
20. my ultimate goal in life: to be happy and spread happiness. Earning enough money with a job I love to offer a worryfree life to me and my loved ones. Also to mostly be surrounded by people I love and who love me.
1. walk in the mountains while on my period
2. sitting in strange positions and cracking every bone I can in my body
3. that guy that I didn't really like at first but then turned out to be smart, interesting, funny, and nice but still not too indulgent (aka the type of person who pushes you forward), liked simple things like eating in the garden near the campus... and now lives in Canada.
4. Age 6, I hadn't seen my aunt's dog in 2 years and didn't remember her quite well. But she did. I'll always remember the look in her eyes when I confusedly stepped back as she tried to jump on me. That was the las time I saw her and it's the only thing I'd like to change in my life.
5. being tricked into thinking that people like me only to discover they were making fun of me all along. That, and the day my parents will die, which is inevitable and awfully scary.
6. home. That's stupid but [continued]
7. I'm already loved by some people I'm sure of and my cat, so... + money pays medical bills for loved ones and allows to make gifts to everyone.
8. my dad asking me if I wanted to go to the toy alley in the supermarket. That's not his style at all and I remember it with a mix of surprise and joy. / him again telling me he was going to keep the cat he found in the garden. I was 14 but it's the best memory of my life.
9. Saying "consipation" instead of "conspiration" during a big presentation. Not the biggest cos' I can't remember all the embarrassing crap I do, but the most recent one.
10. It would involve either water pistols or disguise & a theme (like "the 50's" or "pirates")
11. If my eyes could be the same size, that would be great. It's not obvious according to my family but it bothers me a lot. {c]
13. I don't miss anything, I hated my childhood.
14. Wouldn't know.
15. Writing.
16. Depends. I would die for my parents, cats, 1 of my sis but my two others sisters I see once a year and that's ok. I haven't see my cousins/aunts/... in years but don't miss them.
17. ?
18. In books.
19. bungee jumping and trying the strongest spices. Also Parkour, and that's probably how I'll die.
20. To become as close as possible to what I consider a good person.
I want to see OP's reponses!
(There should be a dating app based on that questionary)
sry I talk too much!
Is the cereal questionmark-shaped then?