When my boyfriend's grandma who raised him as a kid passed away, he cried in silence for quite long time and it hurt me to see him like that, but from that I know that he is a very loving person
This is very true. in my case three out of three i should say. they all happened one after the other and soon after our marriage. i learned him well enough and not in the good way. Needless to say we got divorced.
This is pretty spot on. I was with the guy I thought I would marry, we experienced all three and our relationship was not strong enough. We broke up but still remain friends.
Not to say I won't get sick. You just won't see it.