And? That makes little difference if I want nothing to do with it. If someone I'm with decides "oh it's just playful" knowing full well I want my ass to be left un-slapped and continue with such a course of action in future, they will find themselves without a girlfriend.
Surprised some people have different opinions on something? Also it's not a "oh I'm breaking up with you because you like ass slapping" it's a "I'm breaking up with you because you refuse to respect me enough to not slap my ass after being told I don't enjoy that and am uncomfortable with it being done."
I don't like it and I'm uncomfortable with it. It doesn't particularly matter what it is. If your SO refuses to stop doing something in regards to you a break up is necessary.
1) he has to mentally prepare himself for his girlfriend to do something without him 2) he thinks slapping her butt is acceptable 3) he expects her to spend the whole night thinking about him.. Sounds like a classic case of jealousy turning into controlling
The slapping of ass isn't something that's inherently bad. There are quite a few people to which such a thing is good, something I'll never understand myself. It's just a thing of is she ok with it. On others 1. Yea he shouldn't need someone to tell him not to make non-joking jealous comments. 2. The whole "think about you all night" thing is supposed to be a sorta "shell be thinking about how much better her relationship is compared to the complaining that's being done" which could be a bad thing in the more bad situations people can be in.
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