Choose a man that can do both

Haircut is also important holy crap that's a shocker

She wants John wick

Neither beards or black shirt do it for me. A nice white dress shirt with rolled sleeves and some 5 o’clock-24 hour stubble however...

Black shirt or not, whatever
But that tie, man
That beautiful, skinny tie makes me go dirty

Honestly a fresh-faced guy with smiling eyes is enough. Put him in a suit and I'm lost.