Okay, so in a girl-girl friendship, two girls can hug each other, kiss each other (on the cheek, on the head, every where) , and call each other sweet nicknames, and that's considered a healthy, normal frienship.
(When a guy and a girl are friends, these interactions are interpreted as a romantic relationship because obviously two people of the opposite gender being that friendly with each other means something. Why not. I mean, lets sexualize everything.
In a boy-boy friendship, "big" or "girly" emotions are commonly frowned upon because men obviously don't have feelings. You touch your bros arm for more than seven Seconds? Haha bro u gay. U have a basic human need for touch. That's gay.)
SO the problem for lesbians is "is this girl interested, or is she just a really friendly, affectionate (or maybe dramatic) person?
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Well, if she say she would date you.. I would say she would date you. Sooo...?
I know it can be hella confusing, speaking from experience here. I have a very close relationship with my girlfriends, and from the outside it's impossible to tell if we're lesbians - holding hands, cuddling, kissing, making out, boob admiring and touching. And that's basically the story of how I noticed that I'm bi.
(When a guy and a girl are friends, these interactions are interpreted as a romantic relationship because obviously two people of the opposite gender being that friendly with each other means something. Why not. I mean, lets sexualize everything.
In a boy-boy friendship, "big" or "girly" emotions are commonly frowned upon because men obviously don't have feelings. You touch your bros arm for more than seven Seconds? Haha bro u gay. U have a basic human need for touch. That's gay.)
SO the problem for lesbians is "is this girl interested, or is she just a really friendly, affectionate (or maybe dramatic) person?