Honestly the feeling is real. Even as a young childless woman I get asked often enough if I would ever want kids, and then not get taken seriously when I say no. People need to learn that it is a woman's own choice, not a social obligation
I'm almost 40 and I'm asked this far too often. It's been about 50/50 between "you'd better get on that, you're running out of time" as if I didn't already know that. And take your time, find someone worthwhile to share the rest of your days with".
There is nothing wrong with asking whether someone has kids. Asking if she's pregnant perhaps but nothing wrong with asking about kids. Fuck you and your getting offended about everything bullshit.
The person didn’t ask if she had kids. They told her that it was time to work on having kids because she was 33, childless, and her biological clock is supposedly ticking. She was totally justified to point out how the questioner made things awkward since she’d had 7 miscarriages. And even if she hadn’t, that is the *perfect* clapback for single ladies to use when asked that question. Save this one for Thanksgiving.
Exactly I get asked if I have kids all the time. Decent people stop it there. Annoying people ask more questions and start reminding me how I'm running out of time....
Following up with a "why not" is where the line gets crossed, lol