In my opinion if the guy is hideous, I don't care how rich they are I ain't bothering with him. If I was gonna like a man it wouldn't be for his money, it'd be his looks, the rich part would just be a perk
I dont date for looks, I go for personality. Do we have the same interests? How often does he contact me? Hiw often do I feel happy when I leave his place?
I go for comfort and strength. If I know hes going to have my back no matter what, then hes the guy for me
Women like many different things in men. It’s not necessarily about the money, though money is always a factor in any relationship. A guy doesn’t have to be rich, but most men and women want to eat decent food, maybe go on a trip once in awhile, have a place to sleep- maybe own one. People have goals and dreams and money's a way to achieve those dreams. So it’s less as simple as saying someone has money as to say they have a trajectory. That they want the same things you do. The true thug is many things. A real thug has a hustle. The day job is irrelevant. They are ambitious and trying to do better than one would expect of their station. They are clever, they look out for and protect what they care for at all costs. Real thugs have loyalty that is hard to earn but unshakable. There is an element of danger and excitement, a confidence, and a rejection of society and authority in seeking what they want in life. Decisiveness. All traits many find attractive. Some like the aesthetic too.
I go for comfort and strength. If I know hes going to have my back no matter what, then hes the guy for me