I've got sattalite radio in my car and i found the comedy central channel. I thought that I'd be listening to standup and all that but instead at 2am a show called "are you still up with Nikki Glaser" I've listened off and on but everytime i listen they talk about cheating and how they've cheated on partners and im just sitting there like wtf am i even listening to. One of the women on the show defended cheating while drunk and i was floored. Not gonna listen to that shit anymore
It's kinda cringey to listen to as well. Nikki glaser is somewhat famous, I'm not sure to what extent, and so all the people on the show are just no name kiss asses that just go along with everything. They sound like they are trying so desperately to ride her coattails to further their careers.
I had a conversation with somebody recently and the question came up of "Would you give somebody a second chance if they cheated on you or do you believe that once a cheater always a cheater?" I instantly said that if I was in a committed relationship and somebody cheated I would be done. She totally defended cheating saying she understands why people cheat and that she would forgive the person time and time again. I don't get how people can defend cheating.
I view it like this: If it's a one time thing, and there is genuine regret, I can forgive it. It is still not good, but I could deal with it. If it's an extended affair, or multiple other people, it would be over.
That's why it can only be a one-time thing for me, a mistake and an error in judgement. A mistake I can forgive. A willful betrayal of trust, I cannot.
That's where I don't agree. How do you sleep with somebody as a mistake? You don't just fall into a bed naked with somebody. What do you consider a forgivable mistake? If they make the mistake, are you sure you believe them fully that it won't happen again?
Trust: Gone.
Relationship: Over.
There is no such thing as cheating by "mistake".
Almost forgot. On topic, Glaser had a show on Comedy Central not too long ago that was just as cringey. I tried to give it a chance, but it seemed like more of the old "I'm cute and I talk about sex, so you're obligated to laugh" BS.
Relationship: Over.
There is no such thing as cheating by "mistake".
Almost forgot. On topic, Glaser had a show on Comedy Central not too long ago that was just as cringey. I tried to give it a chance, but it seemed like more of the old "I'm cute and I talk about sex, so you're obligated to laugh" BS.