everyone wants to be loved for who they are (at least by a few specific people)
but people shouldn't have to love you, noone is supposed to love you, who are you to even think of such nonsense? you think you deserve that?
you have the right to like/love whoever you want and so do them.
if they dont love you for whatever reason (from the most rational to the shallowest), you have no right to complain, cause noone has to love you.
note: not even our parents as personally, i believe parenting is more about responsibility than love.
-Women: have to deal with rejection from men, but men think women should accept them for who they are.
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-Men: have to deal with rejection from women, but women think men should accept them for who they are.
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-this meme: *exists, and calls that a double standard on the womens' part*
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-Kangaroos: *have 3 vaginas*
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*confused screaming*
Because the males often have forked penises. And "highly mobile testicles," which isn't super relevant to the vaginas but seemed worth repeating.
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Basically the vagina starts as one tube and then splits into three. The outer two are the ones actually used for sperm depositing and are penetrated by the penis-- in some cases both are penetrated by the forked penis at the same time. The middle canal is for giving birth.
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Admittedly this doesn't really explain WHY any of this occurs, just how it functions, which is the best I can do. If it helps (read: makes things stranger) this isn't entirely uncommon in marsupials
Stop trying to turn everything into a gender issue. It’s divisive. Large people in general have a hard shake in most modern societies. Large men tend to be accepted but as “fluffy funny guys.” The comedian or the butt of jokes. We can argue that in general large women do or do not have it tougher- however it’s a plain fact that if we are talking beauty standards that society is stricter on women. Argue all you like- but the magazine idealized male form is basically a guy who works out. Having “nice hair” helps- but men Like Vin Diesel, Jason Statham, Patrick Stewart, and the rock are all examples of men who manage to be major sex symbols to many women without hair- and in several case she without any or too extreme a physique. Men’s “ideal” standards come down to more or less being groomed and dressing in some style whatever it may be from a suit to athletic wear. There’s also a huge variation of tastes for women- with things like muscles or facial hair etc. being loved, hated,...
... or tolerated on a case by case basis. The individual man may have particular Tate’s but in general the image of what a woman “should” look like in society is fairly uniform. While attitudes or styles or slight variance in body types may be put forth- well.... the make up, hair, skin care, nails, clothing, and other beauty related industries that are worth billions for women do not see those levels of complexity nor returns for men because not only are men not socially expected to do these things to be attractive- but on the whole the majority of society would find it LESS attractive if a man wore makeup daily and underwent a Beauty regiment akin to females. So in general- the message isn’t supposed to be that you must be attracted to a certain type of person, it’s supposed to be that you shouldn’t automatically devalue a person for one aspect of themselves. It’s not about wether you’re male or female.
All large people in society have issues with being looked down upon or automatically discounted because of their size. Most people aren’t dating someone who matches their ideal standard for sexual attraction- your partner may be attractive but it’s very likely that objectively, if you didn’t know them and were given a line up of people to choose from everyone on earth based on looks- they wouldn’t be your first choice. So there is a compromise between sexual attraction and the other facets that make a person desirable to us. Personality and other traits that make a good partner, or the fact that finding a human attractive based on things other than looks, and building a bond with them can make them more sexually attractive to us. So larger people on the whole aren’t advocating preferential treatment in dating or that you “Must like them.” They are mostly saying that if you don’t rule them out on weight alone that they are no less worthy of love or being seen as sexy as...
... any of the other people who aren’t quite “perfect” to an idealized standard but don’t fight the outward stigmatization they do. “No plain chicks allowed” or “what do a scooter and a guy who can’t grow facial hair have in common?” Are not wide spread things like they are with being larger. That’s the difference. And yes- on a purely sexual level most of us want to be found attractive- or at least have it be possible that we CAN be found attractive. Our society has a special place where the extremely skinny are seen as attractive, the tall or short, but finding the larger attractive is treated as a fetish or a personality failing.
but people shouldn't have to love you, noone is supposed to love you, who are you to even think of such nonsense? you think you deserve that?
you have the right to like/love whoever you want and so do them.
if they dont love you for whatever reason (from the most rational to the shallowest), you have no right to complain, cause noone has to love you.
note: not even our parents as personally, i believe parenting is more about responsibility than love.
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-Men: have to deal with rejection from women, but women think men should accept them for who they are.
'
-this meme: *exists, and calls that a double standard on the womens' part*
'
-Kangaroos: *have 3 vaginas*
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*confused screaming*
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Basically the vagina starts as one tube and then splits into three. The outer two are the ones actually used for sperm depositing and are penetrated by the penis-- in some cases both are penetrated by the forked penis at the same time. The middle canal is for giving birth.
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Admittedly this doesn't really explain WHY any of this occurs, just how it functions, which is the best I can do. If it helps (read: makes things stranger) this isn't entirely uncommon in marsupials