with the second one, i sleep facing the outside of the bed, so if on the right, i face right, don't know why, just do. but most of these and more, i've been there, done that, had the same stupid arguments. my psycho exgf looked through old skype conversations, found an old argument, like 15 months prior, and started arguing about it again
oh no, she was certifiably psycho, arrested for domestic violence, threatened to kill my son, 3 years old at the time, and then my exwife. hypocritical, when i repeat her words in an argument back at her, she'd fly off the deep end cause you know, how could i say that? never once realising it's her own words.
If anyone is in a relationship here that even remotely resembles one of these arguments, GET OUT. That is a toxic person. The dream one happened to me and it was a massive red flag I didn't take soon enough.
You never know. Maybe it was about more than the trash. Maybe he was deployed unexpectedly, or had a choice and chose to go. Maybe she was injured at the time. There are so many other possible situations.
Regardless, no-one should get mad at someone for one thing when they are really mad about another. No-one should hold onto perceived slights and get mad about them all at once. Anyone on the receiving end does not deserve this.
I shouldn't be bothering with this kind of stuff, but our neighbours has a toxic mom. She wouldn't allow her ex-husband to attend a funeral out of town if she couldn't go. It ended in the common "we got divorced, he's paying for child support, and I'm dating a new guy" divorce process. It sucks that these kinds of problems exist
Good for you!