Muscles are a thing that, given time and effort, it's almost guaranteed they can be improved. Hair loss is more likely to have a genetic or medical causation that often can't be easily treated and rarely has guaranteed results. So, in that regard, I find this comparison fairly incomprehensive
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That said, if you don't like wigs then you're under no obligation to date someone who wears one, and that's not unreasonable. People like what they like and trying to force anyone to engage in a relationship with someone they don't feel comfortable about is more likely to end in disaster and resentment
I largely agree but won’t go into minute details on muscles and who can or can’t have them- the effort required- etc. I’ll say this- if you love your partners hair, you could come home and they could have cut it or dyed it or shaved it all off. They could go bald or need chemo. If you love their face or their body they could have an accident or need surgery or any number of things could change them- lest we forget aging. So I mean- from that perspective the analogy of imaging a man hung his muscles in the closet sort of falls apart. What’s more- when it comes to physical attraction one can keep a wig on and be intimate, harder to manage with fake muscles.
But where the analogy IS apt is that wigs can be a lot to deal with. They need to be cared for, they can be expensive and people wearing them are often careful they don’t get tangled, sweaty, or dirty. They can come off and things like tugging force or wind can remove them, and many people don’t allow others to touch their wigs- much less get any real physical feedback from the wig being touched. Living with someone with a very nice fit body can be similar. A pain. Keeping a “magazine” nice body for most requires a diet, sleep, and work out regiment that is restrictive. It means saying “no” to apt of things that don’t fit that lifestyle. Not so different than dating a female model or woman who is always “done up”- not everyone wants to deal with those levels of care just to see a certain aesthetic. Many just want to live life without the planning and considerations for such additional factors.
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That said, if you don't like wigs then you're under no obligation to date someone who wears one, and that's not unreasonable. People like what they like and trying to force anyone to engage in a relationship with someone they don't feel comfortable about is more likely to end in disaster and resentment