My best friend just passed away - I don't know what to do
5 years ago by guest · 365 Likes · 14 comments · Fresh
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· 5 years ago
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Sad boi hours.
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222daisy
· 5 years ago
I'm so sorry guest. We're are here to listen if you want to talk about your friend
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guest
· 5 years ago
So sorry
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llamas0can0fly
· 5 years ago
My two best friends died last year around this time. I hope you will feel better soon though. and remember that its more than ok to grieve
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itsamemaria
· 5 years ago
So. Sorry for your loss. Try to keep busy, reach out for help if you need it. Think about funny times with them....
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calvinoot
· 5 years ago
Sorry for your loss, remember it is okay to take time to grieve. Know that one day looking back on their memory will be pleasant and not painful.
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rassilon
· 5 years ago
Sincerest condolences guest *hug*
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tonsafun
· 5 years ago
I’m so sorry for your loss guest. I lost my older brother who was my best friend, it is an incredibly hard thing to go through. There are tough times ahead, but as m said it does get easier with time. Know that you aren’t ever truly alone, you have many of us in the Funsubstance community here for you.
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coldpasta
· 5 years ago
Stay strong
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guest
· 5 years ago
I’m so incredibly sorry, and I know it is not the same but I had a succession of best friends emigrate before it was especially easy to continue communication. And what I wish I’d done was open up to other people who cared about me. Your loss is giant and heavy and you deserve to live the life your best friend wanted you to! I don’t want to be all “you aren’t alone!!1!” but you need to establish and be communicative about your needs with your support system. When a family friend lost her husband she said what hurt most was when the silence crept in after the visits to her home as the grief lessened for others, happened. As I’m sure your best friend taught you, being dependent is an absolutely fine thing to be, and in your instance totally understandable. I am so sorry for your loss, and if it’s any comfort know my heart goes out to you.
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guest
· 5 years ago
my condolences. generally, i'd suggest taking a bit time off, letting yourself cry and wallow, talk to someone close to you about your feelings. and don't forget to eat something. grief often numbs a lots of feelings, hunger as well, and it's no good being sad on empty stomach.
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· 5 years ago
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gayassshit
· 5 years ago
Yup and you’re the only one who called them out. If you look at this guests other activity they seem to lead a very insanely depressed life OR they make a ton of crap up!
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· 5 years ago
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