To gripe about someone's type of people they are looking for to date is the dumbest thing to do.
So what if she likes guys over 5ft. Are you going to bitch if she said she only dates blonde haired guys? Or a guy who doesn't live at home? It really is none your business who she likes.
If a guy said I like small waisted girls with a big butt than that's what he wants. Yeah alot of people look at looks first but that is their own choice.
I on the other hand fall for either over weight jolly guys or scrawny gangly nerds. But blue eyes and dark hair melts me. But they have to be taller than me. I am 5'4 I need someone who is also good at things I am not like being able to reach stuff I cant and work with computers and cars. But no matter what we have to be able to laugh and he has to handle that I cant hold a grudge. So if we argue plan to wake up like we are good. Even though we will both fix what made each other mad.
I lucked out and found my husband.
So people who prefer taller people should just be guilted to be with someone shorter so they dont make shorter people feel bad?
Should I divorce my husband and marry someone with brown eyes because I only looked for blue eyed people and that made people with brown eyes feel bad?
What about people who only want to marry people with the same religion? Or the same ethnic background?
Should we all just go with the first person that says they like us?
Everyone has their own opinion and what they are attacked to, to tell someone they cant like certain types of people only than we might as well say men cant date men or woman date woman because they are excluding all the opposite sex partners. And making them feel bad.
See how ridiculous it is. That's WHY I said it's none of our business what people look in a partner.
We should say she is lucky to know what she is looking for in a partner. Alot of people have no clue. Some date random people never knowing what they prefer so they will end up with either single at 30+ or with someone they dont really like.
Although i agree with everyone having a type, i don't think that that's what creativedragonbaby meant at all. The problem is being disparaging or otherwise mean about something people can't control. Granted people can say what they want but she was kinda being mean about it. That being said I'm not defending her being attacked about it but talk shit get hit has it's roots in reality.
I don't prefer going into long-winded explanations because a majority of internet-goers don't read all of it. What I'm saying is that while people who do like short men exist (this is an example), there is a majority of people that make them feel bad for even being short. This is more about self-confidence than who people should love
@creativedragonbaby I just wanted to let you know I am not trying to argue with you in particular. I am just saying that though this girl may say in her own way she doesn't want to date men 5ft and under she didn't deserve the guy making such a rude comment all because she stated what she prefers in a partner.
So what if she likes guys over 5ft. Are you going to bitch if she said she only dates blonde haired guys? Or a guy who doesn't live at home? It really is none your business who she likes.
If a guy said I like small waisted girls with a big butt than that's what he wants. Yeah alot of people look at looks first but that is their own choice.
I on the other hand fall for either over weight jolly guys or scrawny gangly nerds. But blue eyes and dark hair melts me. But they have to be taller than me. I am 5'4 I need someone who is also good at things I am not like being able to reach stuff I cant and work with computers and cars. But no matter what we have to be able to laugh and he has to handle that I cant hold a grudge. So if we argue plan to wake up like we are good. Even though we will both fix what made each other mad.
I lucked out and found my husband.
Should I divorce my husband and marry someone with brown eyes because I only looked for blue eyed people and that made people with brown eyes feel bad?
What about people who only want to marry people with the same religion? Or the same ethnic background?
Should we all just go with the first person that says they like us?
Everyone has their own opinion and what they are attacked to, to tell someone they cant like certain types of people only than we might as well say men cant date men or woman date woman because they are excluding all the opposite sex partners. And making them feel bad.
See how ridiculous it is. That's WHY I said it's none of our business what people look in a partner.