Because I think it’s a gross behavior when men expect sex and this man is gross because he obviously expects sex so much he wants to hold it against his wife, a dangerous behavior. It seems like he thinks he deserves it? Honestly I’m thinking the worst about it, wife’s can be raped too. I’m not saying that’s what’s gonna happen but this seems like the first step towards a destructive path
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· 5 years ago
I didn't get a notification that you replied like two days ago.
Devil's Advocate: Is it gross for women to expect sex?
Probably just the fact that he kept a record for who knows how long, along with the excuses, it seems a little insane. Like who would think "I should keep a record of everytime I ask to fuck and what the response is"
Sounds like the husband and wife have some serious shit to work through.
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· 5 years ago
This little snapshot of a relationship shows some big signs of contempt. She's been withholding intimacy and apparently been dishonest about her reasons, often enough that he felt a need to document it. And he decided to document it, and maybe even was the one to share this online, to what end?
Sure it might come across to some as creepy or gross, but I just see both partners as pathetic. Relationships take work, effort, communication, and compromise. If you aren't willing to put any of that in, things aren't going to work out.
(Tone: not disagreeing, just curious why you say it's gross)
Devil's Advocate: Is it gross for women to expect sex?
Sure it might come across to some as creepy or gross, but I just see both partners as pathetic. Relationships take work, effort, communication, and compromise. If you aren't willing to put any of that in, things aren't going to work out.