I still don't understand why some men think we're so complicated. When we're sad, we want love. When we're happy, we want love. When we're hungry, we want food. When we want sex, we say so. When we don't, we say so. When we say something, we mean exactly what we say. Except if we say we're fine. That means "please comfort me." There you go!
her: "I'm fine"
"ice cream?"
her: "I'm fine"
Now do you see the confusion?