Minecraft

And sometimes a little of both

It has a reward structure that has a moderately short input to reward cycle in survival and is extremely moddable which adds more things to get visible tangents progress on

I like it because I get to spend time with my friends, doing supposed menial tasks that I can bond with and over. And if I wanted to, I could get together with them and construct something grand.

Also the redstone. I love redstone and I loathe Bedrock Edition.