@ title, I used to be okay with it too- well more like just accepting it as something I could not change. But one day it just dawned on me that I would rather be alone and do things for myself than be in the company of "friends" who do not care if I am there. And mind you- I have literally 3-4 close friends, but I have learned to not trust them to care for me as much (and in the ways) as I care for them. Now I have only one friend I can confide in no matter what, which I am beyond glad for, and even though I am lonely sometimes, I am so much happier now that I have realised these things.
I used to feel this way until this one conversation I had in high school. I was talking to this one girl who I didn’t know really well, but who was in the same friend group as me (she was, in my eyes, one of the central members). I commented that I was kind of the outsider of the group, and she said that she’d always thought I was one of the central members, and that she’d considered herself a group outsider. The entire time, we’d each thought we were the outsider, when it turns out neither one of us really was.
TL;DR - We all feel like the outsider sometimes. There’s a good chance that’s at the same time that you’re feel long like an outsider, someone else in your group is feeling the exact same way about themselves.
TL;DR - We all feel like the outsider sometimes. There’s a good chance that’s at the same time that you’re feel long like an outsider, someone else in your group is feeling the exact same way about themselves.