If I was the exwife I wouldn't care how the checks came because I was taking cash from both of them lol my vacation would be paid by his and her checks lol
There are women who pay it to their ex's as well.
But honestly I think they think it isn't fair that they have to pay for their ex's living expenses.
Some even have to do it even though they don't have kids. Some have to pay it till the ex gets remarried. Which sometimes never happens.
I personally think if you were supporting your ex during your marriage and they were doing other things to help support you not financially but other things the cleaning and taking care of you. Then you should pay for them. You can't just drop them with nothing. Some even had promising careers and then dropped it for the than husband's so they can go on and make money or pursue their dreams. Than they get divorced and the one who gave up their job/dreams is left with nothing. It isn't right
But honestly I think they think it isn't fair that they have to pay for their ex's living expenses.
Some even have to do it even though they don't have kids. Some have to pay it till the ex gets remarried. Which sometimes never happens.