As I bisexual woman I can confirm, I am not looking for "holes."
Mostly I am looking for the sort of intimacy where you press your body against that of another person and there is something spiritually comforting about that act. As if your very souls were also embracing.
Not that I don't see individuals whom I find just purely sexually attractive. Because I do, of both genders. Bot really one more than the other per se, but I definitely find some traits more attractive on men and some traits more attractive on women. And its definitely more person to person with people who fit less traditional gender roles.
It's just that who is sexually attractive doesn't really matter that much to me. We can turn the lights off, there are work arounds. The important thing is that you feel good to be close to. Atleast for me.
As much as I can't stand Woody Allen, it's a solid quote. And very true.
Mostly I am looking for the sort of intimacy where you press your body against that of another person and there is something spiritually comforting about that act. As if your very souls were also embracing.
Not that I don't see individuals whom I find just purely sexually attractive. Because I do, of both genders. Bot really one more than the other per se, but I definitely find some traits more attractive on men and some traits more attractive on women. And its definitely more person to person with people who fit less traditional gender roles.
It's just that who is sexually attractive doesn't really matter that much to me. We can turn the lights off, there are work arounds. The important thing is that you feel good to be close to. Atleast for me.