Travel the world hopefully, not raising children helps you save a fuckton too ;) I’m starting to see a lot of people actually deciding to not get kids. I get why some people get them but hopefully this eventual shift in perception will help society not care that not all of us want kids :D
Unpopular opinion: I want to have kids so bad but so many women nowadays are so against the idea of having kids that it's starting to make me worry if I'll ever have them.
And yes I understand that adoption is still a huge thing but like... I just want to have a smaller version of me to raise...
And yes when I say unpopular opinion I damn well mean unpopular bc put of ever single woman I have met in my age range during my entire life cycle I think a whopping 85 fucking percent of them were against the idea of having kids
Also, sometimes they don’t want kids, but you accidentally have have. My spouse and I didn’t want kids, but even being careful, no method is perfect and we have a kid. We wouldn’t it change it for the world. We have a great kid. But you don’t always start out wanting one.
I think it might be very different depending on where you are. The place I'm at it's normal to have at least 1 kid before you turn 20 (witch is insane). I think moving somewhere new is extremely underrated and while it might not fix all your problems it will at least help you see the world a little bit differently.
And yes I understand that adoption is still a huge thing but like... I just want to have a smaller version of me to raise...