In today's world, "dating" is not really necessary to accomplish that. Sadly, there are plenty of guys who would do as this woman asks without the burden of a relationship.
It's absolutely sickening that she dates to get her vagina licked. Nobody said sex was shameful. Nobody said fulfillment is bad (except the girl who's dating for her vagina). It's interesting that you have to strawman to make your point.
if she’s dating people that are also dating solely for this purpose, it’s not much of a big deal, if she’s messing with people that really love her then it’s a problem. It’s not trashy to enjoy these types of things.
Enjoy what types of things? Enjoy sex/oral sex? No, no one said that. Enjoying going around and using random people to get her vagina licked? That's mentally ill. She lacks so much self awareness she doesn't even realize she's dating to break up, exactly as the tweet she was responding to says.
Oh you think she was totally just joking, and she's not actually promoting casual sex to everyone who reads this? She's a virgin until marriage, you think? Just admit she actually sleeps around and she's actually promoting casual sex.
A toxic culture that puts down everyone who is even slightly sexually open or even wears "immodest" clothing, opposes sex education, and forces young people into marriage when they might not be ready at all.
What culture are you describing? And you do realize it's the opposite about clothing, right? Young girls and women are pressured into revealing their bodies.
From horny creeps on the internet maybe. Otherwise, I’ve never been pressured into revealing more skin on a daily basis. In fact most of the time we’re told to cover up by schools, jobs, old ladies with no business in our business, etc.
That's not how a conversation works. People need to explain their claims. There are a million definitions of purity culture. You're being so ridiculously repulsive and rude for no reason.
Every girl is pressured to take off their clothes at school, at the beach, for parties. I've never met a single girl who said otherwise, and those girls are very very liberal. Even they admit they were pressured to wear thongs at the beach, wear tube tops, etc.
Honestly if you can't distill the conceptual meaning from multiple slightly different definitions, I don't even know what to tell you.
You're making generalizing, unfounded claims about "every girl" yet when I tell you to read up, I'm being "rude for no reason". Maybe I'm rude to you, because your generalizations and frankly false claims are rude to everyone.
Also, I'm a girl and I was never pressured by my peers to wear revealing stuff. You know who did try to pressure me into wearing makeup and high heels even though I hate makeup and I am almost 6 feet tall? My conservative grandma who, due to the strict gender roles she was brought up in, believes that a woman must always take care of her looks and wear feminine things. And since we're talking personal experience, in my experience young people nowadays embrace individuality, self-expression, fluidity of gender expression, and revealing as much or as little as you want. Just, y'know, you do you.
You're making generalizing, unfounded claims about "every girl" yet when I tell you to read up, I'm being "rude for no reason". Maybe I'm rude to you, because your generalizations and frankly false claims are rude to everyone.
Also, I'm a girl and I was never pressured by my peers to wear revealing stuff. You know who did try to pressure me into wearing makeup and high heels even though I hate makeup and I am almost 6 feet tall? My conservative grandma who, due to the strict gender roles she was brought up in, believes that a woman must always take care of her looks and wear feminine things. And since we're talking personal experience, in my experience young people nowadays embrace individuality, self-expression, fluidity of gender expression, and revealing as much or as little as you want. Just, y'know, you do you.