When my husband gets mad at something he has trouble controlling who he is mad at.
He will act rude to me or our daughter.
Not as in be mean but do stuff like not say please or thank you or say things in a voice that makes you think he is mad at you.
He has trouble with controlling his emotions due to the hell he grew up in.
So I have to always tell him in a calm voice.
Remember you are not mad at me you are mad at “thing/person” don’t take it out on us.
I understand you are angry.
Remember we are trying to help you.
Say please.
Say thank you.
After he calms down he tells me thank you for helping me through my problem. I am sorry for being short with you. He also tells our daughter he is sorry and thank you for her help.
She understands when he gets in certain moods it isn’t her he is upset with it is just he can’t control his emotions.
It really isn’t his fault it’s his damn parents screwed him up so much.
Lol now when he is mad at me I yell at his ass lmfao
He will act rude to me or our daughter.
Not as in be mean but do stuff like not say please or thank you or say things in a voice that makes you think he is mad at you.
He has trouble with controlling his emotions due to the hell he grew up in.
So I have to always tell him in a calm voice.
Remember you are not mad at me you are mad at “thing/person” don’t take it out on us.
I understand you are angry.
Remember we are trying to help you.
Say please.
Say thank you.
After he calms down he tells me thank you for helping me through my problem. I am sorry for being short with you. He also tells our daughter he is sorry and thank you for her help.
She understands when he gets in certain moods it isn’t her he is upset with it is just he can’t control his emotions.
It really isn’t his fault it’s his damn parents screwed him up so much.
Lol now when he is mad at me I yell at his ass lmfao