Anon holmes exposes gf

Uhh are you sure? There are some paranoid people out there. If they follow this method they’ll never have a relationship

See the last part of the post. If you are that paranoid, you shouldn't be in a relationship.

I feel like it's hard to tell if you're right or too paranoid when you're suspicious, but if it turns out to be the latter, you at least need to try to get some community therapy if not professional therapy. Both you and your partner deserve it. Of course to echo karlboll if they did cheat in a monoamorous relationship then you deserve better than that idiot