This is something you share early on in the relationship or take to the grave. Then again, it could be one of those cases where the baby was gender reassigned for medical reasons and they both found out after the fact.
It doesn't matter if they don't feel like that was the real them. The other person has a right to make an informed decision, and to be able to trust their partner.
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They took that away, and yet people justify this kind of shitty behaviour by focusing on how hard it must have been on the Trans person to manipulate, entrap, and lie to another human for years on end.
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Not to mention people still haven't ever been able to help me noodle through the logic of "well the other person wouldn't have dated them if they found out they were trans, so they had to lie to make sure they WOULD date them, rather than finding someone who doesn't care either way."
Agreed. If they wouldn't date a trans well that's their decision. And I don't believe thats transphobic, it's preferencenor just who they are attracted too. I wouldn't descriminate against trans person but idk if I'd date a trans person. But anyways might never know since I'm married.
He found out in 2012. He met her in 1993 while she was working as an au pair for his sister. He was 44, she was 28.
His 1st marriage was ending and they hooked up. He didn't want kids and not surprisingly, lol, she didn't either. She was from Malaysia and he fought to get her accepted as an immigrant. The government finally agreed, despite irregularities in her birth certificate and papers! She continued her deception by monthly consumption of feminine products.
Everything was fine till around 2010, when she started partying in skimpy clothes and corresponding with younger men. Simultaneously, a visiting relative shared a rumour that she was born male. The cat's out of the bag and he sues for an annulment.
It sure looks less like true love and more like she was scamming from the get-go, just to get her immigration granted.
Ah yes, not born a baby, the mother pushed an entire adult man out of her.
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They took that away, and yet people justify this kind of shitty behaviour by focusing on how hard it must have been on the Trans person to manipulate, entrap, and lie to another human for years on end.
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Not to mention people still haven't ever been able to help me noodle through the logic of "well the other person wouldn't have dated them if they found out they were trans, so they had to lie to make sure they WOULD date them, rather than finding someone who doesn't care either way."
His 1st marriage was ending and they hooked up. He didn't want kids and not surprisingly, lol, she didn't either. She was from Malaysia and he fought to get her accepted as an immigrant. The government finally agreed, despite irregularities in her birth certificate and papers! She continued her deception by monthly consumption of feminine products.
Everything was fine till around 2010, when she started partying in skimpy clothes and corresponding with younger men. Simultaneously, a visiting relative shared a rumour that she was born male. The cat's out of the bag and he sues for an annulment.
It sure looks less like true love and more like she was scamming from the get-go, just to get her immigration granted.