Why do “men”? As anthracite says- not all people of a gender are the same, but “throwing ones life away” or making what could be called “reckless” or “very bad” choices isn’t gender specific. Sometimes we have no warnings or red flags. Sometimes people change in ways that take us apart. At timed like that just remember these ancient and wide words and move on: “It be like that sometimes.”
I have a friend who was attacked by her drug dealer (heroin) and got pregnant. She could not have an abortion and now has a (very sweet) little girl. The dad has walked away, (now dead) or the mom would have been forced to share custody with a heroin dealer.
My friend has recovered and is an amazing mom, extremely fit and healthy. Is a thought person in our circle of friends and family. She rides her bike, lil girl in tow.
One of the dealers stories (fact) he didn't feel like going to his car to get the customer a clean needle. Out of spite he stuck the needle in a dead racoon as he was coming back inside.
Deep story but. Could happen to anyone in the wrong crowd.
Heroin, in particular, in people with any sort of addictive personality or depression or other psychological issues, can wreak absolute havoc. She left for the drug dealer, cuz he was the one feeding her addiction. She dropped out of college because she was addicted.
In all seriousness, dudeman dodged a bullet.
My friend has recovered and is an amazing mom, extremely fit and healthy. Is a thought person in our circle of friends and family. She rides her bike, lil girl in tow.
One of the dealers stories (fact) he didn't feel like going to his car to get the customer a clean needle. Out of spite he stuck the needle in a dead racoon as he was coming back inside.
Deep story but. Could happen to anyone in the wrong crowd.
In all seriousness, dudeman dodged a bullet.