I think you should try to be civil with family that you have problems with.
BUT
If that family member/s is toxic or abusive you need to stand your ground and remove them from your life. Out of sight out of mind, so to speak.
Sadly the people who can hurt you the most is the ones related to you.
I am someone who have a hard time holding a grudge. My brothers hated it when we was kids. We would fight like cats and dogs than an hour later I would ask if they want to play. They say I AM STILL MAD AT YOU HOW ARE YOU NOT MAD?!?!
lol
It takes a lot to make me hate you beyond repair. And many have done it. So that tells you how bad they are.
BUT
If that family member/s is toxic or abusive you need to stand your ground and remove them from your life. Out of sight out of mind, so to speak.
Sadly the people who can hurt you the most is the ones related to you.
I am someone who have a hard time holding a grudge. My brothers hated it when we was kids. We would fight like cats and dogs than an hour later I would ask if they want to play. They say I AM STILL MAD AT YOU HOW ARE YOU NOT MAD?!?!
lol
It takes a lot to make me hate you beyond repair. And many have done it. So that tells you how bad they are.