Seriously people need to think how will the other person feel about what they are about to say to them.
It’s why even in arguments I never say anything that I know will really make them feel bad I stick with the argument at hand. No matter how low the person goes with trying their hardest to just make me feel bad.
Unless I am arguing that the person is a bad person than I hope they have a good therapist because when I get done they will never feel good again.
For instance my cousin she called cps on us and on my brother several times she than lost her own kids to cps after her kid was found stealing girls bras including her sister’s and grandmother AND girls at school gym bags.
She said I was being bad person for moving and leaving my parents.
Let’s just say when I got done with her she cried for several days and her dad called me and told me he was glad I did it. She deserved it. She assumed I never saw such things and she took it as true because I never talk like that.
It’s why even in arguments I never say anything that I know will really make them feel bad I stick with the argument at hand. No matter how low the person goes with trying their hardest to just make me feel bad.
Unless I am arguing that the person is a bad person than I hope they have a good therapist because when I get done they will never feel good again.
For instance my cousin she called cps on us and on my brother several times she than lost her own kids to cps after her kid was found stealing girls bras including her sister’s and grandmother AND girls at school gym bags.
She said I was being bad person for moving and leaving my parents.
Let’s just say when I got done with her she cried for several days and her dad called me and told me he was glad I did it. She deserved it. She assumed I never saw such things and she took it as true because I never talk like that.