*vomits*

And when a man rejects her she'll call them pigs

Ironically, two of the women I know who get the most attention from the “sweetest” guys are about as wide as they are tall. They just have to screen to make sure the guy is still nice to them in front of his friends.

The funny thing about societal standards is that they are completely reliant upon the majority. The exceptions are never the rule. One person is never going to "f-up" a societal standard and you're nothing more than a moron for thinking you will. You deserve everything you get when you try that approach. Societal standards can only be changed gradually by determined effort without, and this is an important without, alienating the majority.