Great! I guess we'll see how much you really mean that the next time people like happy_frog try to gangbang people like him off the platform.
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Cause so far people have been fairly radio silent everytime it happens.
Guys- we need to stay in topic or famousone will get mad. We aren’t talking about happy_frog. This was about how much we think tomorrow wouldn’t be the same without famousone. We shouldn’t name call and harass others. frog isn’t even here. It isn’t right to infantilize happy_frogs stances and it’s disingenuous to reply sarcastically to karboll who didn’t say anything negative and was quite concise.
@famousone@xvarnah Our opinions and expressions will probably always be at odds but know that I'll always believe you are worthy of love and respect as human beings and that our conflict does not define you. With other people, on or off funsub, you have friendships and show a different side that I am not privy to, we all exist independently of this forum. This little forum isn't the world. We're just people, all of us.
Me: posts something directly related to comments made.
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What?
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Also YOU of all people telling someone else to stay on topic is honestly one of the more amusing things I've heard today, so thank you for that
Disclaimer: I am not saying that Guest_ directly said I said any of this, merely addressing the concept that my comment was intended to harass anyone, as seems to be implied by Guest_'s direct reply to my comment.
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In regards to Happy_Frog - I have no interest in them being harassed. That concept is delusional at best, a malicious misrepresentation at worst.
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I mentioned Happy_Frog because they, specifically, implied it would just be such a shame to get famous mass-reported for talking about slurs on a post Happy_Frog made talking about... slurs.
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Karl was in that thread iirc (correct me if I am wrong), and I don't remember him speaking up about that at all.
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It was a specific and very recen incident and I will reference it if I damn well please - and if you think talking about people's attempts to harass other people is a form of harassment than, again, I invite you to move to China where everything's prescripted and only the Supreme overlords are allowed to be offended
And happy_frog was there. Musing to Karl over whether I'm a Trumptard or the guy who got kicked out of the army. Karl himself has implied that I'm a pedophile, and I would keep a list going but I'm not trying to challenge guest's comment length.
And to clarify because some people are perpetual victims-on-behalf-of-others... my response to Karl wasn't sarcastic.
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I absolutely am 100% interested to see if he -- and YOU -- are prepared to introduce your mouth to your money.
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I actually have more faith in Karl on this matter than I do in you. For all we disagree, he at least doesn't hide behind 10,000 page diatribes in the hopes of conflating the issue and concealing his true nature from the world.
1. I’m not “following famousone”- I view “all” by chronological order and then check the comments sections and reply as suits me.
2. You can say whatever you want about me being off topic etc and try and make fun @xvarnah- but when you bring up a person not in this thread or mentioned in the thread until you bring them up- based on something they said in another thread which isn’t related to this thread…. That’s pretty off topic.
3. This post is also off topic so I’m going to stop here and hope instead of drawing this out we can stop thread jacking the topic.
Varnah is entirely on topic, the topic in this case being the history certain users have concerning me, and my skepticism over any supposed good will after so many months, years in some cases, of established hostility and tolerance of harassment and worse.
But sure, this is all about you. Always is.
Famousone… the fact you always think of me, that things are always about me… touching, but troubling. You’re your own man. This was a thread about you, and then about happy_frog having their name dragged in from left field- not as though they came to this thread and said anything bad about you, but because they’ve argued with you before or been mean before?
People will sometimes make us sad, or disagree with us. That doesn’t mean they hate us. People get angry and say things sometimes too. Look at us- despite all the insults hurled my way, here I am, not only posting support above, but talking to you without hate or malice. Disagreements and sour words don’t always mean hate. Despite the insults I know you don’t hate me either because here we are with you talking about me again and telling me that to you, it’s always about me. This can be about you man. Not happy_frog or me- this is the thread where we talk about famousone and how glad we are he’s around.
Huh? Do you mean Chinese food made by Americans? Chinese food made in America? There are Chinese Americans you know? There are also Chinese communities in America who have developed styles and dishes local to where they’ve congregated in America but differ from the styles of Chinese food served in China. It’s also the case that in China there are contemporary styles that have evolved over time from traditional cooking- food in China isn’t frozen in the state of when the first humans there discovered food. So are we comparing contemporary? traditional? Any specific period? Very confusing. Not sure what is meant?
But again- now we are getting further off topic. From being about me to Chinese cooking and American demographics. It’s your thread I guess, so we can talk about what you like I suppose.
Okay, let's talk. I dislike you. I dislike Karl. I dislike frog, and failure, too. I do not care for empty platitudes from clowns who will harass me, harass my friends, advocate for me or mine to be stripped of life or liberty, liken us to pedos, and so much more, only for ya'll to turn around and say "I care about you".
So pick up those empty platitudes and your own feigned ignorance, and take a long walk away from me and mine.
Well, as my old therapist would say;
-Venting is good. Being honest about our feelings towards others is good. I think we've made a lot of progress today.
@famousone- you’re coming from where you’re coming from and that’s alright- but just know that not everyone who dislikes another person doesn’t care about them.
I dislike a ton of my friends and family some or all the time, and vice versa- doesn’t mean I don’t care about them or don’t see any value in their existence or feel like the world would be better without them.
Every person I dislike, someone else probably likes, and their days would be worse without that person regardless.
I don’t like paying taxes or going to work but it doesn’t mean I don’t care about those things or value their existence either. Just my opinion though, my point of view.
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Cause so far people have been fairly radio silent everytime it happens.
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Guest_: We NeEd tO sTaY oN tOpIc
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What?
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Also YOU of all people telling someone else to stay on topic is honestly one of the more amusing things I've heard today, so thank you for that
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In regards to Happy_Frog - I have no interest in them being harassed. That concept is delusional at best, a malicious misrepresentation at worst.
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I mentioned Happy_Frog because they, specifically, implied it would just be such a shame to get famous mass-reported for talking about slurs on a post Happy_Frog made talking about... slurs.
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Karl was in that thread iirc (correct me if I am wrong), and I don't remember him speaking up about that at all.
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It was a specific and very recen incident and I will reference it if I damn well please - and if you think talking about people's attempts to harass other people is a form of harassment than, again, I invite you to move to China where everything's prescripted and only the Supreme overlords are allowed to be offended
As for @karl. I'm sure.
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I absolutely am 100% interested to see if he -- and YOU -- are prepared to introduce your mouth to your money.
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I actually have more faith in Karl on this matter than I do in you. For all we disagree, he at least doesn't hide behind 10,000 page diatribes in the hopes of conflating the issue and concealing his true nature from the world.
2. You can say whatever you want about me being off topic etc and try and make fun @xvarnah- but when you bring up a person not in this thread or mentioned in the thread until you bring them up- based on something they said in another thread which isn’t related to this thread…. That’s pretty off topic.
3. This post is also off topic so I’m going to stop here and hope instead of drawing this out we can stop thread jacking the topic.
But sure, this is all about you. Always is.
People will sometimes make us sad, or disagree with us. That doesn’t mean they hate us. People get angry and say things sometimes too. Look at us- despite all the insults hurled my way, here I am, not only posting support above, but talking to you without hate or malice. Disagreements and sour words don’t always mean hate. Despite the insults I know you don’t hate me either because here we are with you talking about me again and telling me that to you, it’s always about me. This can be about you man. Not happy_frog or me- this is the thread where we talk about famousone and how glad we are he’s around.
But again- now we are getting further off topic. From being about me to Chinese cooking and American demographics. It’s your thread I guess, so we can talk about what you like I suppose.
So pick up those empty platitudes and your own feigned ignorance, and take a long walk away from me and mine.
-Venting is good. Being honest about our feelings towards others is good. I think we've made a lot of progress today.
I dislike a ton of my friends and family some or all the time, and vice versa- doesn’t mean I don’t care about them or don’t see any value in their existence or feel like the world would be better without them.
Every person I dislike, someone else probably likes, and their days would be worse without that person regardless.
I don’t like paying taxes or going to work but it doesn’t mean I don’t care about those things or value their existence either. Just my opinion though, my point of view.