How screwed would you be if you had to live in your favorite time period as a common

Retained independence after marriage, land-owner, flaunted my wealth by raising runestones and funding churches, didn't have to go a-viking & dying in foreign lands. Being a woman wasn't too bad in the late 900s. Oh wait, you said a commoner?! Yeah no thanks.

How screwed would you be if you had to live in your favorite time period as a common woman.
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