I graduated long ago, child. However, if you commit enough sins you qualify for a chance to see me live in hell & spend a day with good ol' Lucifer. Yes, you'll get ice cream.
Flavors vary.. We got.. Hella hot fudge, this is what I sinned for chocolate, so hot in here so take off all your clothes vanilla, look mom I'm in hell strawberry, and many more!
I once snapped at my teaser and kicked her in the leg several times. My teachers were fully understood me as they had been seeing her behaviour around me for a long time so I didn't get into any trouble.
Interesting. Lot of people seem to agree with this from the comments, and yet a while back when people were discussing things like spanking kids or whether its "ok" for a guy to smack a girl back if she hits him everybody was up in arms about "oh its never ok to hit a person for any reason whatsoever"
Where's all that "violence is not the answer" now?
guest, you've got a great point, I'll admit that, but this girl, she just never stopped. I had tried to talk to her. I had tried to talk to my teachers. I had tried to stay away from her. But it didn't work. Snapping at her that one time was the only thing that had actually worked for a longer period of time. I understand that violence is not the answer, but it is a solution, at least a temporary one, but, of course, not a good solution.
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· 9 years ago
Bullies attack to feel superior.
Take them down -> they wont be superior -> end of bulling (altho some of them call friends..)
Possible secondary effects:
- Become a real Alpha.
- Get money
- Fuck bitches.
Bullies attack because of some underlying issue, social disorder or potentially abusive home life. They're taking their aggression out for a reason. There is absolutely no justification, but seriously, stop the cycle don't encourage it.
I have met various bullies through my life, either trying to screw me (NOT LIKE THAT) or some friends of mine.
No one. Not a single one had that kind of problems. They just do it because they feel they have the right to do it, and because they feel great when they do it.
And with most of them, a conversation is pointless, because their brains can't even understand where the sun goes when you turn down the blinds.
I have found that an answer showing them what they are doing (by standing up and fight back) is way more efficient than anything else.
I don't like being violent, but it's like shouting to a tiger "don't eat me" when they are hungry. They wont understand you.
So you know all your bullies well enough that they've been beaten, or assaulted when they were a child etc? Not really the type of thing that is usually out in the open.
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· 9 years ago
Because i used to be friends with almost all of them before they turned into that because of external influences. But good luck trying to talk to them.
Pd: and i'm not talking about bulling them. Just standing for yourself and defend yourself against them.
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· 9 years ago
Its understandable that this happens but both parties need to be punished. People will get into fights at school because of drama and they will claim they're both being bullied by the other person. Neither of them can get into trouble because that one kid who got bullied didn't. I don't like that but thats how the world works inside and outside of school. If you get in a fight at work you're fired so school is preparing you for the consequences of fighting by giving you lesser punishments unless it continues then they can become severe.
Where's all that "violence is not the answer" now?
Take them down -> they wont be superior -> end of bulling (altho some of them call friends..)
Possible secondary effects:
- Become a real Alpha.
- Get money
- Fuck bitches.
No one. Not a single one had that kind of problems. They just do it because they feel they have the right to do it, and because they feel great when they do it.
And with most of them, a conversation is pointless, because their brains can't even understand where the sun goes when you turn down the blinds.
I have found that an answer showing them what they are doing (by standing up and fight back) is way more efficient than anything else.
I don't like being violent, but it's like shouting to a tiger "don't eat me" when they are hungry. They wont understand you.
Pd: and i'm not talking about bulling them. Just standing for yourself and defend yourself against them.