Letter says.
I’m disappointed in you as a daughter. You’re correct that we have a “shame in the family”, but mistaken about what it is.
Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real “abomination” here. A parent disowing her child is what goes “against nature”.
The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that “you didn’t raise your son to be gay”. Of course you didn’t. He was born this way and didn’t choose it any more than he being left-handed. You however, have made a choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward. So, while we are in the business of [disowning] our children, I think I’ll take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gay put it) grandson to raise, and I don’t have time for heartless B-word of a daughter.
[If] you find your heart, give us a call.
-Dad
Because he doesn't want to be mean, dad just wanted to make a point. Being mean would have defeated his own point of not being mean to your own children.
which is weird since her dad is awesome... maybe it skips a generation, which would be good news for the gay kid, imagine what an understanding parent will he be. C:
Wow, you'd expect someone to really learn the hatred from their parents, but I guess it isn't always the case. Kinda contradictory when he said disowning one's child is an abomination, while he practically disowned his daughter for what she did; but in this case, I'd make an exception.
Not everyone learns this type of behavior from their parents, for example my parents are very racist, closed minded, 'religious' people while I'm completely opposite of that I believe everyone deserves to be happy, if they want to marry the same sex or a different race I'm happy for them. Sometimes people just decide they are going to be that way.
So, the dad feels his daugher should have been more understanding of her son...so he goes off totally on her? It's an abomination for her to disown her son, but he effectively disowns her since he doesn't have time for a b-word. It would have been better to not treat her like crap for her treating her son like crap. Undertanding/forgiveness/tolerance have to start somewhere.
But, it's always OK to hate people who are on the wrong side of current opinion on "acceptance."
I’m disappointed in you as a daughter. You’re correct that we have a “shame in the family”, but mistaken about what it is.
Kicking Chad out of your home simply because he told you he was gay is the real “abomination” here. A parent disowing her child is what goes “against nature”.
The only intelligent thing I heard you saying in all this was that “you didn’t raise your son to be gay”. Of course you didn’t. He was born this way and didn’t choose it any more than he being left-handed. You however, have made a choice of being hurtful, narrow-minded and backward. So, while we are in the business of [disowning] our children, I think I’ll take this moment to say goodbye to you. I now have a fabulous (as the gay put it) grandson to raise, and I don’t have time for heartless B-word of a daughter.
[If] you find your heart, give us a call.
-Dad
And I tried reading the actual letter
But, it's always OK to hate people who are on the wrong side of current opinion on "acceptance."
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