I teared up reading this. It is disgusting and horrifying when the victim has to play off or dismiss a very traumatic event because the people in their environment won't take it seriously. This has to stop.
I'm sorry this happened and I'm even more sorry you weren't allowed to deal with the pain it caused.
I'm not quiet sure what's happening. From what I understand...
He was molested by his teacher.
He can't open up about it otherwise he'll be called a little bitch
He actually cares that he was molested
He doesn't think anybody really cares
Because of this, he also pretends he doesn't care
He told some of his friends/peers about being raped and was then ridiculed for feeling bad. So much so, that he decided to hide his real feelings and act like his rape wasn't traumatising, but great.
His rape became such a defining part of him in the eyes of his peers that when he pretended to have liked it, he even became very populair because of it. Can you imagine?? People were celebrating his rape!
While all this is going on in his social circle, he's feeling terrible about the rape, obviously has problems dealing with it, but he doesn't feel he can express this.
As a result he now has a hard time trusting women because of the rape, can't speak out about it for fear of being ridiculed again and never really had a chance to deal with the psychological ramifications of it.
It's truly one of the most horrific things I've seen.
This hit me so hard. I hate how hard it is for male victims to come forward about being assaulted/raped. I hate that there are men out there who will make fun of them if they do. This is all kinds of fucked up. ANYONE can be a victim, and ANYONE can be a rapist- it's not exclusive to specific genders.
This hurts me. I've had experience with this and I think that rape is a horrible, painful thing for anyone. And for a guy to be ridiculed for it and said that he was supposed to enjoy when the women are victimised? No. That's not okay, not in the least. Rape is never something to laugh at. No matter who it happens to or who does it. It's not okay. Never.
I'm crying really hard right now because this brings back memories. And I don't... I hate that people can even think of doing this, and people think that this is funny.
I barely slept last night. I was thinking about all this, it was driving me crazy. And when I finally did fall asleep, I had yet another nightmare about it. So I woke up, tried to stay awake, then fell asleep for four more hours. Dreamt about nothing.
Social "Justice" Warriors. You know... the misandrist Tumblr plauge?
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I was being facetious because they think rape is bad unless it happens to people that don't support them or to men... those that think that it CAN happen to men anyway.
Many of them are of the conviction that: Men. Don't. Get. Raped.
I'd like to tentatively jump in here. I once heard that it's considered "aggravated sexual assault" if it's done to a man and "rape" if it's done to a woman; is this true?
I don't know man. When people were making fun of Shia Lebouf, tumblr jumped down their throats for it. I've seen this post all over tumblr saying "This gets to me" "This is why we need to bring more light to male victims of rape" some even going into essay length detail about the topic. Tumblr people aren't the devil and neither are a lot of the SJW'S. Almost all of them try to help as much as possible by bringing awareness to the situations.
Molestastion is sexual abuse. Think about it. If you have someone being touched inappropriately, and the adult is having intent of having sex with the person, then it's abuse.
In the last picture you can see the pain in his eyes. Women always complain about how hard they have it, but in reality guys have it equally hard to fit into the standards society upholds for them.
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· 9 years ago
There is an episode on glee where the talk about this, but they didn't really discuss it that much
Are you fucking kidding me? Laughing out loud at this? Did you even fucking read it? Are you capable of reading? Because we all know you are near illiterate.
I'm sorry this happened and I'm even more sorry you weren't allowed to deal with the pain it caused.
It's horrible that people can allow this to happen to their classmates and friends
He was molested by his teacher.
He can't open up about it otherwise he'll be called a little bitch
He actually cares that he was molested
He doesn't think anybody really cares
Because of this, he also pretends he doesn't care
His rape became such a defining part of him in the eyes of his peers that when he pretended to have liked it, he even became very populair because of it. Can you imagine?? People were celebrating his rape!
While all this is going on in his social circle, he's feeling terrible about the rape, obviously has problems dealing with it, but he doesn't feel he can express this.
As a result he now has a hard time trusting women because of the rape, can't speak out about it for fear of being ridiculed again and never really had a chance to deal with the psychological ramifications of it.
It's truly one of the most horrific things I've seen.
Craft
Please don't cry
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I was being facetious because they think rape is bad unless it happens to people that don't support them or to men... those that think that it CAN happen to men anyway.
Many of them are of the conviction that: Men. Don't. Get. Raped.
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It counts everytime
Even after all this time?
She thinks that I am sticking up for her...?