yes, I'm sure she's unaware and doesn't wake up in the morning and look in the mirror and feel her self esteem bottom. There are about a million ways to tell someone they need to lose weight to be healthy other than this shit, which is the kinda shit that makes kids kill themselves. Everyone has a vice. Everyone. To me, even though my BMI is normal, it's the easiest vice to understand. Food's extremely satisfying. Obesity is a problem. Do you REALLY think bullying is the solution?
Rihanna wasn't bullying... Maybe this kid did need motivation from a celeb - one of her favorite celebs for that matter - because if she's got a snickers or something, her parents aren't helping her by taking it away/buying it for her.
@mysteriousmag
"so is emotional destruction from a hero"
It's foolish to be emotionally destroyed by a truth you already know.
@guest3
"bullying"
Calling a fat person fat is not bullying.
One, she's a kid, an overweight one at that, you really think a kid won't be upset that one of their favorite people called them fat? Yes, she knows, but come on. You really don't know what her self esteem is like. When your self esteem is low pretty much everything negative said about you is taken to heart. Two, calling a chubby child fat is bullying and shouldn't be done. We should be doing what we can to uplift our children not tear them down just because.
"you really think a kid won't be upset that one of their favorite people called them fat?"
The kid should be taught to harden up and not be taken down by words. It's weak.
"calling a chubby child fat is bullying"
No it's not.
"We should be doing what we can to uplift our children not tear them down just because."
She fat. That's bad. Kids need to be taught that bad thing are bad. That's not "just because".
The kid should be taught to love herself no matter what she looks like or what people say about her. But that gives no one the right to put her down just because that's what they see. Calling a child anything negative is bullying, I don't care what anyone says. She may be fat, but anyone calling her anything other than beautiful is horrible. There's other ways to teach a child without tearing them down. That's how kids kill themselves or grow up to be serial murders.
"The kid should be taught to love herself no matter what she looks like or what people say about her."
Sure, but they shouldn't be made to think that they're flawless.
"Calling a child anything negative is bullying"
Lol, you can't make a child aware of their flaws? The next generation is doomed.
"I don't care what anyone says"
That's a terrible way to form an opinion.
"anyone calling her anything other than beautiful is horrible."
Dooooooooomed.
"There's other ways to teach a child without tearing them down. That's how kids kill themselves or grow up to be serial murders."
Telling a fat person they are fat should not tear them down. If it does they have bigger problems they should address, and not blame the people who call them fat.
@garlog, bunny, calling a fat person fat can hurt their feelings, no matter how hardened or aware they are. you don't scream at depressed peeople 'hey, how's you suicidal tendencies today? found any tasty pills yet?'. It's insensitive. Makes you look like an asshole and brings the other person down. There's literarly nothing positive about it, so why do it? People don't need hardedning or developing thick skin or getting used to hurtful words. We need kindness, all of us.
Rihanna made a huge fool out of herself. I'm honestly disappointed to see she couldn't bring herself to handle this differently.
"Hey how's your suicidal tendencies today? Found any tastey pills yet?" Rihanna would have technically been doing the opposite of that with this overweight girl, ya know by taking the candy (making problem worse) away from her.
She didn't make a fool put of herself for speaking an opinion either famous or not she's still a human with opinions just like everyone of us.
Stoner, you can always edit it and the garlog looks like a foreskin for pointing out nothing (I really think we should start using foreskin as an insult, whose with me? FOR THE FORESKINS!!!!)
Deflection is petty.
Either way his was indirect and yours was direct.
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· 9 years ago
I think you have that backwards....either way I dont see how it affects you other than to try to troll me.you have done a pretty good job at deflecting my question to you
"I think you have that backwards"
I don't.
"I dont see how it affects you"
These comments? None of them really affects me, I'm not posting out any sort of sense of responsibility.
"you have done a pretty good job at deflecting my question to you "
Okay.
"And his was not a flat out accusation?"
Yes.
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· 9 years ago
Be careful on your high horse its going to hurt when you fall
Diabetes will shorten her life by a lot and if she doesn't listen to her parent or friends etc, I'm sure she would probably listen to Rihanna - but even saying this, I'm sure that this post is fake.... Maybe Rihanna was giving her the snickers - we don't know unless we were ther or there was a video to back it up. I could say that the exact same thing happened to me and everyone could believe me!
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· 9 years ago
It was probably yhe girl who gave it to rhianna and said here I know its your favorite munchie snack
But hey, I'm sure you need a win.
"so is emotional destruction from a hero"
It's foolish to be emotionally destroyed by a truth you already know.
@guest3
"bullying"
Calling a fat person fat is not bullying.
The kid should be taught to harden up and not be taken down by words. It's weak.
"calling a chubby child fat is bullying"
No it's not.
"We should be doing what we can to uplift our children not tear them down just because."
She fat. That's bad. Kids need to be taught that bad thing are bad. That's not "just because".
Sure, but they shouldn't be made to think that they're flawless.
"Calling a child anything negative is bullying"
Lol, you can't make a child aware of their flaws? The next generation is doomed.
"I don't care what anyone says"
That's a terrible way to form an opinion.
"anyone calling her anything other than beautiful is horrible."
Dooooooooomed.
"There's other ways to teach a child without tearing them down. That's how kids kill themselves or grow up to be serial murders."
Telling a fat person they are fat should not tear them down. If it does they have bigger problems they should address, and not blame the people who call them fat.
Rihanna made a huge fool out of herself. I'm honestly disappointed to see she couldn't bring herself to handle this differently.
She didn't make a fool put of herself for speaking an opinion either famous or not she's still a human with opinions just like everyone of us.
That's probably antisemitic.
This is obviously an aggressive question, as you sarcastically claim to know his relationship to Rihanna.
Either way his was indirect and yours was direct.
I don't.
"I dont see how it affects you"
These comments? None of them really affects me, I'm not posting out any sort of sense of responsibility.
"you have done a pretty good job at deflecting my question to you "
Okay.
"And his was not a flat out accusation?"
Yes.