5'3'' and 240lbs? Jesus Christ. Yeah you can call yourself beautiful until you're blue in the face but you sure as shit aren't healthy. Go for a walk once in a while. I'm overweight and I call myself fat but at least I'm active daily and know that I'd be even better looking if I did lose some weight. Being fat is unattractive no matter how much you want to say it isn't, unless you have a fat fetish then that's your deal.
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Also, being called tall or short isn't derogatory because your height isn't a choice, your weight is. (Barring legit medical reasons)
Yeah, you're wrong. First of all, attractiveness is wildly subjective, so saying she's unattractive is your opinion, not a fact. Secondly, you don't know she's unhealthy. People base so much off looks, it's impossible to tell anything about her health from a paneled internet post.
TEDx isn't exactly known for their critical thinking when it comes to selecting speakers. Certainly not as refined a selection process as the TED main stage.
So one thing i remember my friend saying was that your own opinion of yourself didn't usually matter too much in life, and other people's opinions of you were what got you places. just something to think about
this is actually one of my biggest annoyances! i am overweight, and every time i call myself fat someone chimes in about not being fat or how i need to love myself or some shit, and i'm like omfg i KNOW i am fat AND i love myself stop being fucking ridiculous. "oh you're right i'm totally fucking thin, and thin thin size 16. yeop."
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People did that to me when I was pregnant. "oh it's just the baby" no I gained 60 pounds. That is not all baby. Smh.
No you are not beautiful you're ruining your body and your life and you're convincing others that being fat is OK. IT IS NOT. Being fat is UNHEALHTY AND CAN CAUSE LETHAL DISEASES. FUCK OFF WITH THIS FAT ACVEPTANCE AND FUCKING ACCEPT THAT BEING FAT IS NOT GOOD. STOP TRYING TO CONVINCE OTHERS THAT IT IS OK TO BE FAT, BECAUSE IT IS NOT. STOP TRYING TOMAKE OTHERS OK WITH BEING FAT. STOP TRYING TO CONVINCE OTHERS INTO COMPLACENCY ABOUT WHAT IS MEDICALLY A DISEASE. DONT YOU UNDERSTAND THAT OBESITY KILLS?! WHY DO YOU ROMANTICIZE OBESITY, WHY DO YOU TRY TO SAY IT IS OK?! JUST FUCKING STOP.
You. Chill. Everybody understands that obesity is unhealthy. Nothing in this image says it isn't. What this image does say is "it's honestly none of your fucking business if somebody is happy the way they are regardless of the effects of their lifestyle on themselves." Fat is unhealthy. No shit. So is smoking, and drinking in excess. Guess what? Smokers, drinkers, and yes, even fat people, could not give any less of a shit about your weird issues with other peoples' bodies. If you don't like fat, don't be fat. It's not complicated. It does not require a screeching tirade because you desire to control whether other people are allowed to be emotionally okay if they don't fit your standard. They have their own standard. Whether it's high or low compared to yours is none of your business. It has nothing to do with romanticizing "fat" and everything to do with people being allowed to simply go through life being content if they so choose without being harassed. Take a pill.
There are exceptions to this rule, but chances are, you aren't one of them.
*sits back from afar and watches everyone rage judge*
But you also gotta make sure that the right people think highly of you.
P.s
You HAVE fat you cant BE fat....
Yes you can.