Another side to the story could be that she's been harrased or stalked before so she has a. Short fuse. A lot of women have had such a horrible time with guys that now their immediate reaction is to get their back up. Not saying it's ok, but when your on the receiving end of some guys abusive and degrading "advances" it's hard not to get touchy.
While I agree with you, man, I think bingbangwala meant sort of in the way that if a dog bites you you're gonna be uncomfortable around dogs.
The thing is, if you get bit by a dog you can learn to get used to them again but you can't hide behind the excuse that you got bit a couple times. Same with anything. If you got harassed by a few guys you can learn to not be as scared.
Man, in this scenario it's a completely random guy out of nowhere texting her 'wanting to talk'. (Because if she's selling a phone he most likely got her number off yknow, an ad for the hone she posted...) who she doesn't know. If she's been stalked or harassed before this is EXACTLY the situation she ought to be jumpy on. Thee is no proof she 'hates all men' just the sketchy ones who call her when she doesn't know them.
There is literally no aggression in the person's words. And he's on the polite side of neutral. If it was phrased a it differently it could have been interpreted as coming on, but this is the most neutrally polite you can get.
Plus, idk how iphones work, but how would she even know he's a dude ? One of her friends could have lost her phone and was asking for advice or something but she wanted to be a bitch
since theres a pic of her i think this is some service other than texting, but the thing is if she is selling her phone she knows she told people to contact her on this app and knows she is selling a phone which is why she should chill before cuzzinghim out
Yeah look, she shouldn't be horrible but I've been on the receiving end of a really normal text that turned supa creep in like 5 seconds. Guys can get real weird real quick.
Especially the classic
" I have a bf "
" good for you, what should I do in the PowerPoint ? "
"good for you, you can finish the goddamn project by yourself"
The thing is, if you get bit by a dog you can learn to get used to them again but you can't hide behind the excuse that you got bit a couple times. Same with anything. If you got harassed by a few guys you can learn to not be as scared.
Not everyone is trying to be her boyfriend