But there is also the weird scenario where the person doesn't know they're attractive and they don't realize that the person they find attractive is attracted to them as well.
Attractive girl: I wish I could find a guy like you.
Me: I'm a guy like me.
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· 8 years ago
Saying a guy like you meaning we want a guy who has a lot of the similar things you got. Maybe kind, gentle, funny, caring,.. but not you coz we don't feel that attraction more than just a friend. You don't have that something else/extra that makes us want you as more
If people who say that would date me, in the first five minutes they would realize what a great choice they've made and how great of a boyfriend I am. And yes I am tooting my own horn on this one because it's true.
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· 8 years ago
You seem like a good guy. I don't think you'd have any trouble getting any girl you like to like you back.
I'm serious though. I think it's gonna take some form of miracle for me to find a girlfriend at this point.
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· 8 years ago
Why not? You should be getting loads of girls at the place you work at.. anyway, you're personality so far is really nice. Don't look only for 'attractive' girls. Look for ones that seem to be good for you. Sometimes you get these feelings when looking at someone where you'd know you'd both get along. Be yourself and let her show her true self.
Exactly haha. More people need to realize that's exactly what I am. And I'm incredibly unselfish.
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· 8 years ago
Maybe if you show yourself more? Like when talking to a girl, show her exactly how you are. Make her laugh. Talk about different things. Tell/show her things that she didn't know before. Make her feel comfortable and happy, and have a want to talk to you. Soon she'l want to be with you.. just put yourself out there more and I'm sure you'l find the perfect girl for you.
It's hard for me to do that. I try but I chicken out all the time.
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Aww hh. Practice makes perfect. Work at it. Be pleasant, smile, be gentle, and the rest is down to your talk and behaviour. If she's the type to like your style then you shouldn't even need to try any longer. Everything should come natural to you both. Like your conversations should flow easily. How old are you?
dan howell....
lives halfway across the world, is most likely gay, doesn't like me back, doesn't know who I am, is famous, and isn't twice my age, but it would be weird if I dated someone his age
Well, I'm not famous, not gay, don't think I'm a douchebag, doubt I'm twice your age, I don't have a girlfriend, I might like you back, I probably live on the other side of the planet, I probably don't know you exist and I'm only semi-fictional
IT IS TOO REAL
Me: I'm a guy like me.
Can I?
I can cook!
So did it work out in the end?
Let hope it works out in the end
Yes
Why so true
lives halfway across the world, is most likely gay, doesn't like me back, doesn't know who I am, is famous, and isn't twice my age, but it would be weird if I dated someone his age