Texting =/= cheating
Depends on what they're texting about. Even if they didn't stay friends, a polite "hey, how have you been?" might pop up from time to time and that's okay. No need to ovary-act. Hehe.
I disagree, but you're right, we don't know the nature of the breakup. Maybe he dumped her and the texting has carried the theme of trying to get back with him.
Dont text your ex. Thats weird, why do people act like thats normal? If theres been romance or sexual tension said romance and sexual tension can happen again no matter how much of an adult you think you are. Just dont be a piss baby and put the person out of your life.
"Thats weird, why do people act like thats normal?"
Because for some people it is normal, and not a big deal.
"If theres been romance or sexual tension said romance and sexual tension can happen again no matter how much of an adult you think you are."
This can also happen with anyone you could potentially be sexually attracted to. It's not a reason to avoid half of the human population.
There's all kinds of situations, just because they are your ex doesn't mean you're never allowed to talk to them again. Some people have kids together and have to stay in contact, some people contact their ex to warn them to get tested for STDS they've been diagnosed with, and sometimes they run into each other after many years. My dad used to date a now family friend in highschool like 25 years ago, they ran into each other after they were married and had several kids each, and became friends. Our families would baby-sit eachothers kids and we all became friends. All relationships are different.
Something tells me this isn't a situation like me texting my ex-wife (and vice-versa) asking if we can skype with our kiddos.
Don't be an asshole. If you do text the ex, keep it professional.
What ppl are trying to argue is keep an open mind and keep all options available because we all get horny and do dumb shit. That is what makes you human.
Depends on what they're texting about. Even if they didn't stay friends, a polite "hey, how have you been?" might pop up from time to time and that's okay. No need to ovary-act. Hehe.
Because for some people it is normal, and not a big deal.
"If theres been romance or sexual tension said romance and sexual tension can happen again no matter how much of an adult you think you are."
This can also happen with anyone you could potentially be sexually attracted to. It's not a reason to avoid half of the human population.
Don't be an asshole. If you do text the ex, keep it professional.