I wanted to say something, but I needed to let this simmer for a bit first. Is this devil's advocacy? Maybe?
Here's the thing. Let's say she gets very drunk and says some things while under the influence that are hurtful. Did she really mean it? Who knows. Is her fault? Debatable, she was in an altered state. She is however responsible for it, she was the one that took the drink.
Now, in this case she was in an orgasmiclly induced endorphin high, an altered state. She was probably in minimal control of her faculties in the heat of the moment, but she still induced herself into that state, much like taking that drink. Is she responsible in this scenario?
He has to talk to her, there is no question. He will otherwise bear what she said and it will eat him from the inside. I'm of the mindset that he needs to either find her G Spot so he can be that for her or just start packing because he will never be able to be that for her if he can't.
No, I have not debated in an official academic competitive sense. I have however attempted to use measured, intelligent discussion in a failing relationship. Right up to the point I realized I was wasting my time and lost most all of my respect for her. That shift changed me and that's the main reason I waited to form a cogent response.
As you might imagine, the discussion on my part was maniacally ignored by her.
I did not like the person I became then, but when I learned she was a cheating whore and got knocked up; I knew it was over, I "won" and there was nothing left to say.
Small dude here.
This always hurts which is why i have stopped trying to get into a relationship let alone have sex with anyone anymore.
I don't want to be the reason a woman has to simply compromise for during sex to just let me have my fun and get it over with. Using sex toys and having to be good at oral is demeaning still. It fucking sucks but it's what nature gave me.
Hey. I have something, I think, is valuable to hear, for you and possible for any other MAN here. I am a women btw. So. Here is an important fact. It ALL depends of of tighten up the muscles of the vagina are, at the specific moment. If the muscles are tighten - then size doesn't matter. At all. And before I knew it I could say size does matter. But not today.
So a little illustration to this: when I started to be good at it, it wasn't at the start, I have had lots of an experience in which: after a long time with myself, and GOOD time, I had this experiencse that even when I was using a dildo about 1,5 cm wide... I had such a clench that it hurts a little.
Something very practital for you. Don't know if it works for majority of women.
But here is a simple thing: starting vaginal intercourse after making a woman orgasm
or a good foreplay
will simply make her vaginal muscles tighten up.
And simply cause of this both she and You ill feel like you are getting IN like King.
Ah, and one more thing.
For hundreds of years, around the glob cultures developped different means for woman to achieve higher tighten up of vaginal muscle EXACTLY for a better sex. One of those are geishas balls. Or exercises of these muscles by oneself. We are not alone, we have hundreds od years of someone elses' research to gain from :).
Here's the thing. Let's say she gets very drunk and says some things while under the influence that are hurtful. Did she really mean it? Who knows. Is her fault? Debatable, she was in an altered state. She is however responsible for it, she was the one that took the drink.
Now, in this case she was in an orgasmiclly induced endorphin high, an altered state. She was probably in minimal control of her faculties in the heat of the moment, but she still induced herself into that state, much like taking that drink. Is she responsible in this scenario?
He has to talk to her, there is no question. He will otherwise bear what she said and it will eat him from the inside. I'm of the mindset that he needs to either find her G Spot so he can be that for her or just start packing because he will never be able to be that for her if he can't.
As you might imagine, the discussion on my part was maniacally ignored by her.
I did not like the person I became then, but when I learned she was a cheating whore and got knocked up; I knew it was over, I "won" and there was nothing left to say.
This always hurts which is why i have stopped trying to get into a relationship let alone have sex with anyone anymore.
I don't want to be the reason a woman has to simply compromise for during sex to just let me have my fun and get it over with. Using sex toys and having to be good at oral is demeaning still. It fucking sucks but it's what nature gave me.
So a little illustration to this: when I started to be good at it, it wasn't at the start, I have had lots of an experience in which: after a long time with myself, and GOOD time, I had this experiencse that even when I was using a dildo about 1,5 cm wide... I had such a clench that it hurts a little.
Something very practital for you. Don't know if it works for majority of women.
But here is a simple thing: starting vaginal intercourse after making a woman orgasm
or a good foreplay
will simply make her vaginal muscles tighten up.
And simply cause of this both she and You ill feel like you are getting IN like King.
For hundreds of years, around the glob cultures developped different means for woman to achieve higher tighten up of vaginal muscle EXACTLY for a better sex. One of those are geishas balls. Or exercises of these muscles by oneself. We are not alone, we have hundreds od years of someone elses' research to gain from :).