The only hero I deserve

Some women need to be taken care of.

If you need someone to remind you to bring a jacket when you're clearly cold then it's a mental problem

@chakun .. did you just assume the genders??

Oh, shit, you're right, my bad.

@chakun not just women, just some people in general. The sort of people that when you meet them, you want to ask, "who ties your shoes?"

You guys sound f'ed up. If you were in a relationship, wouldn't you want to take care of your partner? Foresight is one thing, but if in that situation, I'd just give my jacket and freeze a bit. You're a guy ffs.
You don't HAVE to do it. But no sense in not doing it if you ask me. Guys are used to not being coddled. Thats not really their forte

that's misogynistic. Apologize.

May be so, but I as a GUY feel that way. If you don't like it, avoid me. I won't apologise unfortunately for your beliefs

So hold on... let me ask a question for devil's advocacy and a bit of my own curiosity:

She's cold and you give her your jacket, to take care of "your woman." That's misogyny, correct?

If you don't because you aren't sexist and she's a strong, independent woman... you're mean and heartless?

Which is it then?

Both, dude. You lose either way.

Right, thought so. Carrying on with that line of inquiry:

I desire to not be single, but flirting, hitting on and "picking up" women makes me a horrible, horrible sexual predator.

Choosing the single life because navigating the minefield of pop culture and societal expectations isn't worth it anymore but that makes me a selfish thought rapist becasue I might turn women down...?

Yes, that's exactly right.

So its all pretty much an eventual journey down to 'men suck, they shouldn't do anything'....

So its all pretty much an eventual journey down to 'men suck, they shouldn't do anything'....

Preeeeetty much. Of course, normal women don't really give a fuck, and would rather you offer your jacket, so I'd play the odds and offer it. Then, if she gives you shit for being a gentleman, you can dump her ass and find you a grateful woman.

Some really sound advice right there. Glad so many people agree, I was getting worried that people thought too diferently...

@apple_maggots, Yes, but we also suck because we don't do anything either. It all just boils down to:
"I have a penis, blame me for everything!"

Not doing anything, I rather look at it as minding our own business and facing the music if it comes down to us. But I guess not grouping up and whining like so many groups do makes your group end up on the weaker side of the protest

Wait? Did you take this seriously

.. yes...?