Story time.
So I was sleeping in the same bed with a good female friend while my bestest homie was chilling on the floor in the same room. We had a batch of cannabutter going in a crockpot, and I knew I couldn't fall asleep or it would burn. I'm really great with my internal clock, so I figured I was just gonna have my side of the bed and snooze as much as I could. About 20 min in, she starts playing footsie. I like playing footsie so I reciprocate and this goes on for 2ish hrs, my internal alarm goes off, I get up to stir the butter, come back and lay down. Footsies is initiated again. Again, I like footsie so.... another 2 hrs of this... internal clock again, stir, repeat all this twice more with the 4th time letting me finally strain the cannabutter and put it in the fridge. At this point I really want just 1 REM cycle.... Now the footsie becomes calvsies, but like... at a weird angle since I'm rolled over the other way.
Morning comes....
According to her, she didn't get any sleep because as she says it my feet kept poking hers. I laugh and tell her that she's the one who kept playing footsie with me... she does the whole.... "whaaaat... noooo!" routine. I just drop it all, commenting on the cannabutter to change the subject.... which wasn't hard because I realized she didn't have an oven to bake the eventual cookies with (Oh btw I was on a trip to Colorado at this point, this is a friend I actually met years earlier in NY) so I had to find an oven in Colorado. Luckily I have quite a few friends who moved there so that wasn't too difficult. Oven has been found, but we have to wait until dudeman gets off work. We go too the park and just max out, me playing solitaire and her napping while my homie visits his sister (why we took a road-trip to Colorado in the first place). Now... I've always had a little "what if" in the back of my mind about this... this girl and I had amazing compatibility... but when I visited her
she had a BF at the time, even though I was in her bed and he wasn't. Then there is also the fact that I really do love her and care for her, but I'm only here visiting, I'm 2 states away, one of those states being fucking 800 miles in width .... It wouldn't ever work. I'd be such a dick if we hooked up and then that was it... and I'd lose a great friend.
Anyway, we've kind of drifted since then... and I kind of think it's because I didn't make a move or something. I think by not trying to fuck anything up, I fucked everything up. It makes me sad when I think about the footsies with her.
I'lll tell you this though, those cookies were bomb as fuck. I got 25 people so stoned off a batch of 15 cookies (homies at dudeman's place with the oven) that 7 missed work, 8 fell asleep at work, 2 found themselves sleeping on random benches outside, and 7, including the homie I went on the road trip with, just played mario kart in awe for 10 hours straight. I just curled up and thought about the
Anyway, she had work later that day and we had to hit the road, so we stopped by and I left her half the cookies in the back of her car (she was at work at this point... and, c'mon, not gonna roll up with a bunch of pot cookies while she's at work)... and then we hit the road. I haven't seen her in person since. I just wish I could have given her a kiss goodbye :/ I miss her. I imagine we'll see each other again eventually; we've found each other in NY, TX and CO... so... who knows.
Fuck... now I'm all melancholy and shit... wish I had one of those cookies XD
She didn't want the D, she wanted the F ;)
Personally, I think it's good you didn't make a move but I'm not one for cheating. As a woman I'm going to say the problem lies somewhere in the first 2 hours of playing footsies. It should have been like 5-10 min max of footsies then you make your move. Or after her saying "whaaat..nnooo" You should have called her on it and told her what was up..but I know that's easier said than done. It sounds like she was testing the waters and probably got the wrong vibe from you
Not the wrong vibe...just not THAT vibe
Also, she had a BF.... fucking that up for her over one night? I didn't wanna live with that guilt.
Again.... we've found each other multiple times across state lines..... I'm pretty sure we'll see each other again.
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So I was sleeping in the same bed with a good female friend while my bestest homie was chilling on the floor in the same room. We had a batch of cannabutter going in a crockpot, and I knew I couldn't fall asleep or it would burn. I'm really great with my internal clock, so I figured I was just gonna have my side of the bed and snooze as much as I could. About 20 min in, she starts playing footsie. I like playing footsie so I reciprocate and this goes on for 2ish hrs, my internal alarm goes off, I get up to stir the butter, come back and lay down. Footsies is initiated again. Again, I like footsie so.... another 2 hrs of this... internal clock again, stir, repeat all this twice more with the 4th time letting me finally strain the cannabutter and put it in the fridge. At this point I really want just 1 REM cycle.... Now the footsie becomes calvsies, but like... at a weird angle since I'm rolled over the other way.
Morning comes....
Anyway, we've kind of drifted since then... and I kind of think it's because I didn't make a move or something. I think by not trying to fuck anything up, I fucked everything up. It makes me sad when I think about the footsies with her.
I'lll tell you this though, those cookies were bomb as fuck. I got 25 people so stoned off a batch of 15 cookies (homies at dudeman's place with the oven) that 7 missed work, 8 fell asleep at work, 2 found themselves sleeping on random benches outside, and 7, including the homie I went on the road trip with, just played mario kart in awe for 10 hours straight. I just curled up and thought about the
Fuck... now I'm all melancholy and shit... wish I had one of those cookies XD
Personally, I think it's good you didn't make a move but I'm not one for cheating. As a woman I'm going to say the problem lies somewhere in the first 2 hours of playing footsies. It should have been like 5-10 min max of footsies then you make your move. Or after her saying "whaaat..nnooo" You should have called her on it and told her what was up..but I know that's easier said than done. It sounds like she was testing the waters and probably got the wrong vibe from you
Not the wrong vibe...just not THAT vibe
Again.... we've found each other multiple times across state lines..... I'm pretty sure we'll see each other again.