Wow. Not only did you miss the point, you did exactly what Katie is complaining about. It's either brilliant trolling or utter stupidity. I don't know which.
Mom’s sacrifice everything of themselves for their kids. Sometimes it’s night and when they are finally asleep do you notice that you have been waiting to pee all day. The advice is to take care of yourself first. She’s saying it’s not a choice. You simply do.
The difference between a stay at home mom/housewife/homemaker and a trophy wife. One takes care of the home and those inside it, like Katie, and one stays pretty and shiny, like a trophy.
I get really tired of people who act like such fucking martyrs because they have kids. You're not a superhero because you decided to spawn. You're not special. Your kids are not special. Get over yourself.
Eh, I tend to lean on the side of @lordblackdragon and @nightkami here. Yes, we get it, having kids is hard. Nobody said it would be easy. I'm totally okay with people complaining to me about how hard it is, I will gladly listen because we all need to take things off our chest sometimes, and I will even help you with your kids if you need me to. But so many people with kids act like they're martyrs, like they made some big sacrifice, and furthermore so many people with kids treat people who don't have/don't want to have kids like some kind of inferior being, like we're assholes because we decided not to make this "sacrifice". It's not even a sacrifice at this point, the Earth is overpopulated, it's just a choice. And a selfish one, even. There are so many kids in orphanages but you just had to spread your own genes because they're sooooo worth spreading. But that's a conversation for another time, now I'll just say that do reproduce but stop acting like such martyrs about it.
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