Would you?

It's healthy to view yourself in a positive light.

It's not about ego
Just 20 years of observation
Also if you don't think you'd look hot in porn, you need to boost your confidence and self-love

depends on if they get the good angles/facial expressions or the bad ones.

Viewing yourself in a positive light is different than being arrogant and constantly talking about how perfect you are

I'm not sorry for being me which is great
And definitely not at all sorry for people being salty just bc not everyone is full of self-hatred like them

I don't know if you are implying that I am salty or full of self-hatred, nor did anyone say you should be sorry. But you can love yourself and be modest, instead of stating how perfect you are with every chance you get. You might have beauty, but that self-centered attitude definitely ruins it.

I dig it. Confidence is sexy

Nobody's denying that

There's a difference between confidence and egocentrism

I don't think anything but time and acid can ruin me
Also I don't give a damn if you or literally anyone that I don't give a shit about think about me
So whatever negative things you wanna say is all useless

Damn, I hit a soft spot. Is it so weird not having everyone's admiration and not having everyone admit how perfect you are? All I said is that confidence is different to arrogance, and you might be pretty, but those whom you call "salty" are just annoyed by seeing you deify yourself all the time

I don't have a sort spot
But they're only touched by pleasures
I don't think everyone admires me. People are into different things
Some are into me
And some are into not-that-great things
I get that you're annoyed (not that it matters at all though)
It's not easy to handle me, I'm overwhelming

So anyone that is not you is a "not-that-great thing"? How can you possibly know that? Is it just your belief that you are a "goddess" that makes you say that?

Not my fault people don't have high standards

You're just verifying what I said. According to you, anyone who is not you is not so great. You just assume that you are the highest standard that people can have, and your basis for that is your OWN arrogance

Nah
My boo ain't me but he's absolutely wonderful in every way
So are the rest of my people
I just don't get along with people like you who can't handle when someone actually likes themselves and not talk shit to fish for compliments

I enjoy seeing people feel good about themselves, I just don't appreciate having someone's arrogance rubbed in my face. When have I ever fished for compliments, that makes you include me in those "people like me"? Don't make assumptions about what I feel for other people, just because I commented on how often you talk about how perfect you are

You read my comments by yourself
I don't make you read it
It's on you
I don't need a second glare to know your people. It's too obvious

Well, if this is your argument you obviously haven't read my comment. Just because I can't stand your arrogance, it doesn't mean that I hate it when people love themselves. Don't generalise this, I simply stated my opinion about the current situation with YOU

You can just do what people do and move on with your life
No one would even notice when you're gone

Yeah..... people keep throwing around the word “arrogance” and “perfect.” @rasalinas never said she was perfect. She said she’d be fine doing this because she was confident she would look good. Is it arrogant to go to prom or a job interview and think to yourself that you look good? Most people try to look good don’t they? Aren’t the makeup industry, the fashion industry, and so many more based on people wanting to look good? Is anyone who buys a nice pair of shoes or pants arrogant to you? Do you go clothes shopping and grab things off the rack and pay money for them thinking “yup. I’ll look like crap in this. I should buy it.” So to mirror what rosalinas said to @releasethekraken in her last comment- it seems you are projecting your own issues on to her comments. Why do you even care what Rosalinas thinks of herself, and what makes you feel capable or responsible for changing her self image?

Guest, I am not particularly referring to her comment on this post, there have been many occasions where she has commented on how perfect she is. I did not imply that people shouldn't feel good about themselves, it just gets annoying seeing the same thing over and over again. Like she suggested, I usually move on, but today I decided to state my opinion about how arrogance is different to confidence. And then it escalated. I'll unfortunately answer to your last question with a question. When and where did I mention that she should change her self image?

Awww you defended me
That's so sweet! It totally made my day, even did a better job than every time I walk pass a mirror (for the record, I said the second part cause 1. It's true 2. It annoys people and that amused me)

@releasethekraken- “guest_” not “guest,” not being persnickety, I just wanted to be sure of the distinction. I often find myself at odds to her views on things, but more often I can at least partially agree, and I am almost always at least understand where she is coming from on things; so even if we don’t see eye to eye on everything I respect her. She can be self assured to the extreme at times- but she owns that. She even says here that she is just being her. I can agree with your earlier statements that one CAN be modest and have self love, and I agree overall that self love, arrogance, or even narcissism aren’t the same. It starts to fall apart though. Several tiles there is question or assumption that when a blanket statement is made about “haters” and the like that you are included in that group. It devolves from there. If all you wanted to do was state your opinion on her perceived arrogance- you did so eloquently quite a ways back. She acknowledged your unsolicited....

... opinion and stated she didn’t actually care what you thought. After that point to continue would either be an exercise in futility as she is aware how you feel (mission accomplished) or to argue a point (hence to change ones view.) I suppose the third option would be an offshoot of the first- simply wanting to argue with someone. Regardless, you did not say people should feel bad about themselves and I’m not saying your overall stance is wrong or even that I disagree with the principles in your argument perse. But the question really was: what are you hoping to accomplish?

@rosalinas- lol. You know it. You’re good people. Keep that shine on. Edit: for the record I know you can’t efend yourself. I just couldn’t help it.

Okay, ignoring all the things you said to her cause ... it doesn't have much impact on me and I tend to mind my own business to save energy (good talk though), how do you find yourself at odds yet also partially agree with me
Ain't those 2 opposite in meanings...
Or did I fail my English exam

Is the blanket statement where she specifically talked about "people like me"? Like I mentioned before, I simply stated my opinion and then it escalated, since I wanted to support my argument as to why I had that opinion. Thank you for also stating yours, and I'm not saying this in a sarcastic way.

@rosalinas- Not always at the same time. Like if someone says: “Soemthing is bad and should be illegal.” I might agree that thing is bad, but not agree it should be illegal. Or I might not agree with what a person says, but I agree with why they are saying it. Sometimes I don’t agree at all. This is true of you or anyone else. It just depends on the conversation. But I can say that in general wether I agree or not, you tend to put thought into your position on things, and you have strong opinions which you express. I respect that. Not everyone should or could be like you, and I think that’s ok. The world needs many kinds of people, and you have a strong and distinct personality that can sometimes upset people, but is also a wonderful thing. So I think your English test is a pass, I just didn’t specify that I didn’t mean at the same time.

@releasethekraken- no worries. No offense taken or sarcasm thought implied. I respect your opinion, and certainly some personalities don’t get along well. I can’t say I’ve never gotten caught up or let a conversation go a certain way. It’s all par for the course. I didn’t mean in any way to seem like I was invalidating your opinion. It is of course yours to have. It just seemed the conversation was getting rather personal for the original topic and intent.

Yea cause some people have eye issues and think I'd not look good in porn
Like how on the name of any planet would that be possible!
Thanks btw, we should talk sometimes

Lol. No worries. You’re a good conversationalist.

Ikr! Except for when I'm moody so I try to find random reasons to be upset about
But you have to be at friendship level 5 to experience that

I feel you on that.