The problem is in the fact she lied. She said she didn't want a relationship with anyone as a way of letting him down easy and proceeds to then show that she lied. If you don't want to date someone you just tell them straight up you aren't interested in them. Not lie in a way that sets them up to get hurt or something. Truth is usually the better option. Ones own lack of tack is not an excuse for lying.
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Or she changed her mind in a week. The woman was fucking being nice it's not like she led him on or something. She may not have lied. This is ONE side of a story. Either way it's her life and she was nice about it.
In the girl's defense she might not have lied and actually changed her mind.
I was pretty sure I didn't want a relationship of any kind (erasmus here, so I was just looking for casual fun, nothing serious whatsoever). Well I met this girl and we kinda hit it off. Decided to see her again (still at his point not considering anything serious at all). We actually got along really well, so I just kept seeing her. Well sure enough, I found myself in a serious relationship.
Did I expect it? Not even a little bit, I was actually quite hesitant at first, because it wasn't what I had planned. Would I make a different choice if I had a do-over ? Not in a million years.
Sometimes you just meet someone that makes you change your mind. Sucks for OP that it happened so soon after they went on a date, especially with a friend of his. But sometimes life happens.
That does suck but hey at least you went for it and put yourself out there. Went on a date and had an amazing time. I sure hope things look up for you in the future. Keep your head up
I've had this. Well, she didn't say "Yes." I got rejected. She said we just started high school and that she wanted to focus on her studies and not date. I said that was admirable for her to do. She started dating someone a week later (no, I'm not joking).
I was pretty sure I didn't want a relationship of any kind (erasmus here, so I was just looking for casual fun, nothing serious whatsoever). Well I met this girl and we kinda hit it off. Decided to see her again (still at his point not considering anything serious at all). We actually got along really well, so I just kept seeing her. Well sure enough, I found myself in a serious relationship.
Did I expect it? Not even a little bit, I was actually quite hesitant at first, because it wasn't what I had planned. Would I make a different choice if I had a do-over ? Not in a million years.
Sometimes you just meet someone that makes you change your mind. Sucks for OP that it happened so soon after they went on a date, especially with a friend of his. But sometimes life happens.