Because it isn't the guy you cheated with fault that you cheated. Even if he knew you were with someone the only ONLY WAY he would be at fault as well would be if he was related to your bf/husband or is friends with him. Even in that case you still receive almost all the blame. You are the one who should be faithful not other people you are to blame no one else but you.
I want to say I'm not fighting the bro because maybe he didn't know... maybe you didn't tell him.
I also want to say that I'm not fighting bro because I'm gonna have an alibi and it's gonna look like an accident...
But honestly, I don't have time for that shit anymore. You go looking for something outside the relationship? Fine. You beyrayed my trust, I'm not good enough and I'm not what you need... it's something else.
I'm cutting you loose. Good luck figuring it out and finding it.
I also want to say that I'm not fighting bro because I'm gonna have an alibi and it's gonna look like an accident...
But honestly, I don't have time for that shit anymore. You go looking for something outside the relationship? Fine. You beyrayed my trust, I'm not good enough and I'm not what you need... it's something else.
I'm cutting you loose. Good luck figuring it out and finding it.